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  • ancanico90
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2017
    • 2

    Odd thing..

    Hi!
    I'm Anca. I have a problem, I recently started a relationship with a guy and we tried last night to have sex, but he didn't manage to have an erection. I don't know what to believe and what to do ... Have you gone through such a thing? What should I do?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Welcome to WH!

    What did he say about not having an erection? Did he get an erection and then lose it?
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia [CENTER][URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php"]Register![/URL] | [URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/help#vb_faq/site_rules"]Rules/FAQ[/URL][/CENTER]

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    • ancanico90
      Junior Member
      • Sep 2017
      • 2

      Hello Jns, thank you!

      He said that this thing has never happened to him and he doesn't know why this happened. He was looking nervous. I don't know if he got one and lose it when undressed, We were watching a movie, then we started kissing, undressing each other.. and when we had our clothes off, he didn't have an erection at all.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        It could be that he found you so attractive that it made him nervous and that nervousness caused him to lose any erection he had. I had that exact thing happen to me years ago. In that case I finally became more comfortable being with her.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia [CENTER][URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php"]Register![/URL] | [URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/help#vb_faq/site_rules"]Rules/FAQ[/URL][/CENTER]

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