We met on a dating app and things started fast. He already had our second date planned before our first date. We had a great time, I felt like we had a connection and I thought I had finally met someone that wanted a relationship. After two weeks he wanted to meet my family, and after a month we became the well-known facebook official. He told me he loved me during this time and took me to Disneyland. Then by month two he is telling me he wants to marry me, which later turned to him talking about kids and that future. He even mentioned a few times about throwing out my birth control. He gave me nice gifts, even got my mom flowers and a cake for her birthday. He seemed so charming and nice, he would bring me lunch to work sometimes kinda thing. He hung up pictures of us on his walls, always asked me to stay the night and leave clothes there. I honestly felt happy despite the speed of the relationship; he treated me well it seemed.
Two weeks before our relationship ended he became distant, hot and cold. He stopped the kids/marriage talk but would still call me and tell me he loved me. During this time I was feeling insecure I asked him if he still wanted me to move in with him soon because it was his idea and he said yes. Three days later he dumped me. He started crying telling me he doesn’t want to live here after graduating in May and that his job is going to place him elsewhere. He would feel guilty if I moved for him like he moved for his ex and it didn’t work out and it was the worst time in his life. Followed up by saying im the second person hes ever loved and care about, hardest thing he’s done in his life, etc. After he was done I was crying, he asked me if I wanted to eat, WHO does that?
We had dinner a week later for him to tell me the same things and act like he wanted to see me happy and hated hurting me, would always be there for me. During this week he changed his status to single and deleted our pictures. Forward a few weeks he untagged himself in everything, he is hiking with this random woman. Few weeks later they are in a relationship, he blocked me and my friends on facebook and Instagram. Somehow he is still watching my Snapchats even after I unfriended him.
First meeting him he mentioned his ex cheated on him, that ex come to find out is ex wife. He only ever mentioned ex. She still has their engagement photos up. They were married 4yrs, I think I met him 4 months after divorce. They began following each other again a week before we broke up. Also found out he started that job here and isn’t even moving. He already met new womans family and they have pictures up to. I feel crushed and confused.We were together for 5-6mos.
I thought he was the sweetest guy. He seemed so caring and loving. Then this. I’m truly confused and hurt. I trusted this person. Too soon I did perhaps. I guess my friends or most of them never cared for him citing that they believed he was too nice and charming and it came across as very fake to them as well as an ego. Not sure what did to warrant this. He didn’t even want to try to work things out or communicate anything that was bothering him. How does someone go from treating me so nicely to this? I still have these nice gifts from him and not sure what to do with them.
Two weeks before our relationship ended he became distant, hot and cold. He stopped the kids/marriage talk but would still call me and tell me he loved me. During this time I was feeling insecure I asked him if he still wanted me to move in with him soon because it was his idea and he said yes. Three days later he dumped me. He started crying telling me he doesn’t want to live here after graduating in May and that his job is going to place him elsewhere. He would feel guilty if I moved for him like he moved for his ex and it didn’t work out and it was the worst time in his life. Followed up by saying im the second person hes ever loved and care about, hardest thing he’s done in his life, etc. After he was done I was crying, he asked me if I wanted to eat, WHO does that?
We had dinner a week later for him to tell me the same things and act like he wanted to see me happy and hated hurting me, would always be there for me. During this week he changed his status to single and deleted our pictures. Forward a few weeks he untagged himself in everything, he is hiking with this random woman. Few weeks later they are in a relationship, he blocked me and my friends on facebook and Instagram. Somehow he is still watching my Snapchats even after I unfriended him.
First meeting him he mentioned his ex cheated on him, that ex come to find out is ex wife. He only ever mentioned ex. She still has their engagement photos up. They were married 4yrs, I think I met him 4 months after divorce. They began following each other again a week before we broke up. Also found out he started that job here and isn’t even moving. He already met new womans family and they have pictures up to. I feel crushed and confused.We were together for 5-6mos.
I thought he was the sweetest guy. He seemed so caring and loving. Then this. I’m truly confused and hurt. I trusted this person. Too soon I did perhaps. I guess my friends or most of them never cared for him citing that they believed he was too nice and charming and it came across as very fake to them as well as an ego. Not sure what did to warrant this. He didn’t even want to try to work things out or communicate anything that was bothering him. How does someone go from treating me so nicely to this? I still have these nice gifts from him and not sure what to do with them.
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