[secretkeeper]

Thank you both soooo much. You both have helped me realise what I know deep down is right. I feel like I want to send you both chocolates !!!!! I have looked up the Madea clip and now want to listen to every word she has ever said. Its all there in front of your face but you dont see it until its pointed out. Im going to take the advice from you both (and now my own subconscious ) to move on confidently that Im not behaving like a little kid in a sand pit. Im sure the family couple will be sulky with us now to make us look bad and squeeze us out even further but that will just reinforce that we need to let them all go. Thanks again. Hugs!!

[Popcorn&Candy]

You're welcome. I do think you've made the right decision.