[suzanne214]

Stick with you accommodation plans and just give him a little time to get over it. Invite him over to the place often and let him meet the guys and get to know them. Ignore it if you think he's acting weird about you being around other guys. Just behave as you normally would. If he wants to express something then he should man up and express it without you prodding him. Hopefully he will really get over in in the first month or two. Whether he's in rented accommodation or the halls he'll likely be surrounded by girls as well and you can point that out to him.

yeah i think that would probably be best actually. he is generally ok once he has met the guys and it is true that he is going to be around alot of girls as well so i guess he cant really complain. he gets on with most people that he meets so hopefully they will all get on thank you for all of your help

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Anon.... Seriously if it was your lady? It's not insecurity rather, very hard, very hard if he does love her to accept that there is a possibilty seeing as he's NOT THERE, ever, that she may fall for someone else? How hard is that? To phathom?

It's easy to fathom. Sure, everyone gets a bit insecure and jelous, but the moment you start letting that affect your life you become a loser.

suzanne214 didn't even thank me for any of my adive, bit rude don't ya think?