[CHANDLERS WISH]

You have to be the bigger person. You also have to get it through his thick skull that it's not ok. That if he thinks for a moment it's ok to do something that hurts you then you are going to give him very specific instructions to where the front door is and how to use it. That's my opinion.

I agree..

But you know the story, sometimes people will not see this, as reality as they are in denial...

Good point Mrs Muse.

Personally, if he hasn't activated it, he's not that interested, rather did it for a reason, what was the reason, you need to establish why he felt that he wanted to do that to start with.

Whether it is exciting of how you can play as Joy has stated, and she has a valid point, it's more of estabishing the why so you can get the what to do next.

In my opinion.


CW