[Joy]

hey torn2pc's

i posted on your other thread too but since you posted here i will respond here as well.

The fact that you mention you have an appointment to go to counselling Nov. 17th is a great sign. If your BF didn't take you seriously then he would already be gone. He would not be looking for a solution.

I think you need to expand your world some way. Do you feel his life is going somewhere and yours is the same ol' same ol' everyday. I think what you don't like and this is only my opinion..... is the constant change up and surprises. Don't be stale change it up yourself and pull out a few surprises.

You are obvioulsy a great woman if you BF is gonna go to couselling over this.

I wish ya the best of luck

[Passion]

Torn2pcs-

Sorry I just read this today. This is how it has worked for me. Well most of my husband's female friends began as contacts for him as he needs to gather a lot of contacts and it so happens to be females. The contacts then have become friends for him as well as for myself. My husband makes it a point to introduce me to them, he is upfront about them and that is why I don't mind as I understand that he needs them for his career as well. When they ask for his help he never goes alone, he always takes me to help as well, rarely does he ever go out with them without me (his choice) I have trusted my husband with them. The reason that I was concerned with this new friend was because she was practically throwing herself at him even though she knew he was married and although he was upfront with me, her texting him late at night bothered me and worried me. As she showed no respect for me all of his other female friends has shown me respect therefore his friendship with them does not bother me. I think there needs to be boundaries and I needed to make them clear to my husband. I've tried many ways and I think that having a discussion rather than an argument worked best.