[btrflixs]

ok I'm a semi-recently married 20 year old and my husband might have a slight problem. I left last september to join the marines but was injured and came back in december. ever since then my husband has been having a little trouble performing. everything starts off excellent but about 15 min after we've started he just goes limp. i don't know whether it's stress or health related but i know it has to be one of the two. any suggestions? anything would help.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Welcome to the Forum.

So what injury do you have? Is he maybe being wary of your injury and concentrating on not hurting you, "your back" for instance, and therefore looses concentration?

Maybe a bit more information may help the posters answer you.

CW

[btrflixs]

ah ok. well i have nerve damage in my left leg and although it sounds serious it's not so bad. My husband and i have had this problem b4 but it wasnt as bad. he just couldnt get an erection but once he did he was fine. now though it's worse. (original posting) hes only 21 so im just not sure what to make of it. after it happens he really beats himself up over it. maybe after the first time it's just performance anxiety? thinking about it too much? idk

[WildChild]

Do encourage him to get in and get a physical. Get his hormone levels tested. The men on here have offered quite a bit of advice on these performance problems before, might be worth reading up?

[btrflixs]

thank you. i have already proposed a physical. so we will make aan appointment and i'll read up on it. thank you guys again