[308dulce17]

this is the situation. my husband and i have been married for 4.5 yeras. have 3 boys. he says he scared to get married by church. i feel really unconfortable living like this, should I just wait for him to ask me/ or should I ask him for a date to do it?

[WildChild]

Huh? You want to marry your husband? He doesn't want to marry you? Is this a common law situation or what?

[308dulce17]

we are married by thelaw, we are catholic and there is a different wedding. he is to scared of god to get married,

[rcoreyus]

Maybe he should talk with your priest. The catholic church belives in forgiveness for sins, so if he is worried about something in his past, he should be able to confess and be absolved. If he is worried about the future - he has already sworn a marriage oath, I don't see how a religious ceremony would be any more.

[308dulce17]

thanks for that

I just think is something in the past, or may he just does not love me enough, that he is scared not to be able to be just for one women, i tell him am scared to die without getting married, no one knowswhen that will happen?