[caterpillar79]

And, btw, he seems like he's wanting something - reason why he signed - up in that website. Just a blunt thought, have you asked yourself about what you have been doing when the marriage is young, that you don't do now?

Most of the time, men go to those websites to "flirt". Maybe he craves for that "dirty" and sexy talk. Give him some of yours.

[baja]

Trust me, guys don't do this for no reason. In my opinion, there are two possible reasons:

1) The most likely reason is that he is simply seeking attention. He is probably putting himself on this site to see if women still find him attractive. Guys really need to feel needed/wanted, so if the fire/passion is less than it was, this may be it.

2) You mentioned that you were high school sweet hearts. So it is also possible that he may be reaching a mid-life crisis. Since you two have been together since you both were young, he may be wondering what he might have missed. I hope this isn't the case, given that this is clearly a far more serious situation and hits the very core of the bond between you both.

When he says he has never cheated on you, it means he hasn't taken this any further. Now is the time to talk it through to find out what's really going on and address it before it grows into a larger problem.

[HALFNOTHING]

nice opinion baja...

90% agreed..

you two guys need to talk. the early the better