I have been certain about my divorce all along. I filed and moved things along. But now, I am hesitant to actually finalize and go to court. My husband does not want the divorce.
Marg in Houston
Marg in Houston
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Hi Marg
Not much info to go on there.
But, are you hesitant only because he doesn't want a Divorce, as you state that "you" have been certain for a long time.
If you truly are no longer in love with him and have tried everything before to get things to work out but they haven't, if he hasn't been open to try properly before, then you probably are doing the right thing.
If you haven't tried....
And, you still have feelings...
Then think it through a little longer.
CWPUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL! -
I am going to take time
I am going to take time. I have insurance, so I am going to go to marital counseling. I will probably have to go alone, though, as my husband is not a big supporter of mental health professionals. He may go once or twice, if I ask.
Thank you,
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