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  • LiveNLearn
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2009
    • 2

    Sparks

    I have been with my fiance for 10 years..lol- yes 10 years. We were young when we started dating... had life goals to complete.

    I absolutely love him. We have bad sex, good sex, and great sex... sometimes no sex...

    While at the beach recently - I met a guy. I introduced this guy to my single friend who was with me. They are slowly hitting it off.

    Problem is- I think this guy is better suited for me than her. He is extremely sexy.. we have so much in common. Obviously you can see my dilemma- I am not going to leave my fiance for this guy- but I always want my friend to bring him around so I can hang with him. I have been thinking about him a lot lately.. I fantasize about him.

    Is this normal?? What should I do to end these feelings?
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    go for it!
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    stop hanging with new guy
    50.00%
    2
    its normal do not worry
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    good luck
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  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    I can't do the Poll.. You missed one...

    Leave your Fiance. Your not in love with him, cause your in lust with someone else.
    PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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    • Ahryin
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 856

      High fives CW and says I was just thinking the same dang gone thing! Also there has to be a reason other than life goals that you are engaged for 10 years....10 years...seriously
      [FONT="Book Antiqua"]Everything I'm not makes me Everything I am[/FONT];)

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