Respect first, love second?

CHANDLERS WISH

Join Date: Mar 2008

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11-30-2009, 01:08 AM

a good friend of mine once told me that relationships require 3 equal factors: Respect, Love and Honesty. When you lack one of the three then the relationship becomes rocky.

I think there is merit definately in that Stressed.

*Looks around for perfectly adjusted humans that aren't over or under confident* .... *fails to see any*....

At any stage, something, someone can tip us in either direction, regardless of our "confidence" ... very true.

They want to be equals.

Kira! That's a perfect relationship, if achieved..

PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!
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