i started this new job this week and the first day i found out i had to work overtime all week. i just quit my last job cause i wasnt getting enough hours so i'm not use to working fultime and standing ALL DAY LONG.
Well i cam home monday and he was great he made dinner he rubbed my back, yesterday i come home and there is laundry to be done and dishes in the sink and he thinks he did me a favore by taking the beer that HE left outside in the 30 below weather and left it in the sink. all of the bottles exploded leaveing a big mess so when i ask him to take care of it so I can do the dishes he said maybe tomarrow. well its still not cleaned up. I him told that i would be cranky because i am really sore tired and yet i have to come home and wait on him. he's tells me well i works overtime to today and yesterday. but his job is an offace job at least he gets to sit down. i get 2 15 min breaks all day thats it. so i told him but i Stand ALL DAY. and he acted as if i do nothing so its been a little hostle since. i just dont get it why i have to work harder than him longer than him and get paid less and still have to do all the house work. i have to ride his *** for him to get anything done.
well i'm done ranting thanks for listening.
Well i cam home monday and he was great he made dinner he rubbed my back, yesterday i come home and there is laundry to be done and dishes in the sink and he thinks he did me a favore by taking the beer that HE left outside in the 30 below weather and left it in the sink. all of the bottles exploded leaveing a big mess so when i ask him to take care of it so I can do the dishes he said maybe tomarrow. well its still not cleaned up. I him told that i would be cranky because i am really sore tired and yet i have to come home and wait on him. he's tells me well i works overtime to today and yesterday. but his job is an offace job at least he gets to sit down. i get 2 15 min breaks all day thats it. so i told him but i Stand ALL DAY. and he acted as if i do nothing so its been a little hostle since. i just dont get it why i have to work harder than him longer than him and get paid less and still have to do all the house work. i have to ride his *** for him to get anything done.
well i'm done ranting thanks for listening.
Tell me something... I've been dating this guy now for nearly 5 years. We have a son together (almost 4) and we do not live together. I have 2 other children from my previous marriage and he has another son from his previous marriage. When I got pregnant with our son, I didn't quit smoking entirely. Yeah, I know it wasn't right, but I was so stressed out at the time - with him. So, for the past 3 1/2 years he's been using that as an excuse for why we "can't move forward". I have tried everything to quit smoking and it's so very hard. Just when I get on a roll with not doing it, something falls from the sky and knocks me down again and I haven't learned NOT to pick up that **** thing! Anyway - over the course of the this time with him, I've moved countless times - including back to my parents house. When I moved into my aprt nearly a year ago, I made it perfectly clear that when my lease is up, I'm going to be buying a house of my own unless something else came up. Well, the time has come and I'm set to close on my VERY FIRST HOME on 3/5! He's as far from supportive as he could possibly be. All we've done is fight about it. About me doing this in general, about the location of the house, about how it keeps us from being together and about how we'll continue paying 2 different housing expenses. Well! It's been that way for years and I've waited on him to make some room in his life for me and he hasn't because I didn't quit smoking! His house won't even accommodate us all! Does he have a valid right to hold this over my head? And/or am I so completely wrong for securing a safety net for myself and my children? I'm anxious to hear what other's have to say. 
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