[torn2pieces]

I have been seriously tempted for the first time in my 3 year relationship.

[Mes T]

More specifics?

Temptations pop up every now and then, even for the best of us.

[stressed]

Do elaborate...

[grrrr]

I think that the "temptation" sounds like cheating........ "tempted" is one thing, "action" is a far different thing.

Good luck, that's quite a pickle!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

There are only so many times, you can be put on the emotional rollercoaster Torn.

It seems that things go "okay", then they revert back to the things you don't like about him and he doesn't like about you.

Isn't that called, "non compatibility?", especially when you try to talk them out but he won't listen..

I think maybe your journey has come to an end, so cheating isn't going to solve, it, rather, moving on....

The difficulty with that is that people find it hard to let go, but what they don't realise is the pain and suffering they are enduring, hanging on.

What really is there left in your relationship, if you feel that you need to cheat, whether it's a thought, or you have met someone, that has made you feel this way, the bottom line is, there is no point in cheating... Instead, you leave, and then do what you desire... No point hurting you, or him, in that manner because you will sweet.

CW

[starjoy08]

I can understand, I was tempted. I had alot of thinking to do. the only thing that stopped me was a phone at the wrong/right time. I am thankful that I did not mess up a good thing. For me is was about not feeling loved and I had to talk to my love about it. I did not tell him what happened and I never will but I did tell him that I need more of him for a bit. I was shocked when he understood.

[Guest]

if its vanilla ice cream with kahlua poured over it that is tempting you, then i say go for it.

if it is someone else that is tempting you, then you need to get our of your current relationship before you do anything with anyone else.