[hizenberg]

unfortunately we cannot change somone but we can help them to see their 'cons' and give them tools to help them change to grow as a person. throwing in comments ,not nasty, about certain things that peeve you will help,and if you have caught his attention you will spark a conversation on the issue. the thing is to not sound like you are personalley atacking him,as you will hurt his feelings and he may hold resentment and no change a thing.it sounds like to me he may have depression and him being lazy could be the reasonof possible depression. the best thing to do is to be up front and completley honest, try not to be brutalley honest as i am finding out in my life a.t.m. its not working for me as peaople tend to get hurt,n think im attacking them and not take it as me being honest.

[calicogirl]

im sorry but this is ridiculous. if you want your man to buy you things maybe you shouldve gotten a sugar daddy. Seriously your husband isnt there to purchase you things you want. GET A JOB and do it YOURSELF. Im gonna take a wild guess he bought your wedding ring? so why not just leave it at that.