[zazzyzara5]

All I can say is go you!! Its clear that you're a strong woman and however hard it may be you know you've made the right decision! Have fun with your new life xx

[whit4488]

hes unfaithful, you can tell whomever you please the truth about that jerk. move on, re-invent yourself, life the life you've always imagined. dont let him or others opinions of you set you back. keep your head up, everything will fall into place. God never gives us more than we can handle, He is constantly testing our strength to perservere!

[Annabelle]

You sound like a very tough woman, I could never handle things the way you are. Good for you! You will find better, someone that will love you and only you, someone you deserve. Keep strong, don't let him break you, because it really sounds like he' trying his hardest to. As for "don't tell anyone"... He just doesn't want anyone to know what a liar, cheater and jerk he is, and doesn't want anyone to know he just lost the best thing in his life. He doesn't control you, and you have every right to tell anyone you want to tell. This may be a little off topic, but when one of my ex boyfriends left me, one of my girl friends sent me this quote, and it really helped me a lot:

"One day he'll wake up and realize how special she is. And she'll be waking up to someone who already knows."

Good luck to you, stay strong!