[twizzie]

I cant honestly say he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. He's keeps me sane, level-headed, happy, sexually happy! (He's the first man to ever be able to get me off by going down on me!)

I haven't got alot of negative things to say about him except..
His mom.



I love the old lady.
But she needs to bug off. She is constantly trying to get into his money, his wallet, make me pay her back for things she has bought him, she doesn't want him going to holiday dinners with me..

She acts like I am a piece of and he is still 15. He's 23, and I'm not a piece of . I've taken care of him for two years. I don't know what to do.

Shell come over, stay three hours, leave, call 4 times, and talk about stuff to him about me, and our life... I'm getting tired of it!!!! Any of you have this problem?

[twizzie]

She won't stop feeding him cigarettes, pain pills..even though he has asthma, bronchitis, and stops breathing in his sleep!

[KMonte85]

sorry twizzie, there isn't much that you can do. Mom isn't going to listen to you, even if you tell her to knock it off.

The message has to come from her son. HE has to be the one to set the limits on how much influence his mom has on your lives. If he's unwilling to make his Mom stop, then you're stuck and will have to figure out how to cope with her behaviors...

What does your fiance think of her busy-bodyness?

[twizzie]

I meant "can" not "cant" hehe.

And, he always sticks up for her...and there's no reason for it. I've almost left him because of it.
I had a fever of 104 and was throwing my guts up, and his mom came over with an attitude, and wanted him to go with her to the gas station down the road from us so that she didn't have to go alone. It's literally three blocks away.

I've been dealing with it. But she even called me a due to her other son, who is an alcoholic...we got into it. He didn't stand up for me at all...

So I guess I'm kinda over it...it just irks me sometimes.