[BabyGirl]

Stripped,
you have come to the right Place. Especially with People Like BD on here and any others like JNS that can research info for you .

I want you to know that when you said

The cops can't help me. If I do leave, he'll find me.

That is what He wants you to Believe !!!

Your Best Friend right now is 911 or Going to an Emergency Room for your Face and not hearing out of the ear. Take you daughter with you. If you can't go tonight, Go Tomorrow when he is at work.

If you have no Money or Transportation, Call 911 for an Ambulance or ask a neighbor to take you. Once in the Hospital, as for Services. They will help you, they Will get you Help, they will do most of the " leg work " for you.

But You have to be willing to lose the things he shared with you ( House, Clothing, Possessions), Yours and your Daughters Lives are worth more than anything you may have materially with Him .

Once he is arrested, you'll have time to go get a few things and as long as he can't bail out right away, you will be safe enough to gather what is Needed. Take all Birth Certificates or Important Papers , SS or Tax info.

If you have a Computer, take it with you, especially is a Laptop. If not a laptop. Just try to disable it, after Printing any saved Addresses or Friends that may help you .

Disabling a Comp isn't that hard, Unscrew or slide the Sides off and take a knife or hammer and Smash the " Flat Board with all of the Silver stuff on it . ( The Mother Board) It will not destroy all the info, that's on the Hard drive. But he will have to buy another Mother Board or use another comp to get info off of the Hard drive. But you can " Bake a Hard Drive/ Comp in an over 400 degrees for an hour, that will usually do the trick

If you have time, Pack, as we said, then Call all billing companies, Phone, Cable, electric Etc, Tell them you are moving and have everything shut off on the day you are Leaving. Take any and all Money possible ( cash ) get Cash, and Don't use any Credit/ Debit cards from that account or Name, Ever again.

If you were a regular poster you could PM me and I You. I have resources ( personal ) that I could hook you up with. People who I know would help/ or their Group would help, and Not too far away from you. Lodi area.

But isn't anyway to do that now. Maybe we can ask an Admin how to do it & keep us all " safe " and Anonymous ??

[Julietpinkrose]

Get away from him as fast as you can, for yourself and for you child. You have come to the right place and i hope you have read the advice and info given to you.

The most important thing at the moment is to go somewhere safe like the hospital or police station and to keep you and your child safe.