[kaylar]

Some one has watched a bit too much Fatal Attraction...
however,
Valid.

Keep your eyes open. Prove Jubes wrong.
Prove Toadess isn't sitting in front of your building
watching the door. (Watch your rabbit closesly).

Toadess might just be your average two penny S lut
looking to pay her light bill, or she could be wacked.

I know what Caroline has posted. I can think of a number
of women who have fallen in love with a man who later
proves to be Gay. So I guess being married is sort of the
Goodhousekeeping Seal of Straightness

[Gia]

Great Advice JubesInquest

I agree with JubesInquest! Great Advice!

MissKitty3, Your husband needs to "stop" leading this nut case on via my space. He needs to terminate all contact with her ASAP!

Do you have children? You need to protect your children! He should have never invited her over, She obviously is mentally deranged and she wants your life and she will do anything, taking over your family etc...

She is dangerous, You can get a restraining order, since she now knows where you live! Your husband is particially responsible for leading her on. When a spouse invites somebody over (from my space)to their home, the nutzo woman probably assumed that you both wanted a three way!

Gia

[bellasmom]

Myspace

While we both do have accounts, I only started mine up because I found him on it! Most of his friends are women in bathing suits (probably fake) trying to promote their modelling.
Now, my boyfriend is absolutely gorgeous, so he attracts attention everywhere we go. I used to feel sad and hurt by these women trying to get his attention- so I fought fire with fire.

Sometimes, I throw around the idea of me becoming a bar waitress, other times, I talk about dying my hair blonde- whatever it takes to let him know that I can be desired by other men just as he is desired by other women. That usually gets him to focus again on me, not his myspace hotties! Because if he doesn't, they will be all he's got. Set up your own account, sweetie- and don't forget the pictures of you from 10 years ago in a bikini- "I'm so much cooler online"

[kaylar]

Second Life On My Space


I wrote a little short story called cyberlove about two
people who fell in love over the internet.

Diane used a photograph of a friend's sister who was
thirteen years younger than she was and looked really
good. Arnie used a photo of his brother taken ten
years ago.

Women over forty will claim to be in their thirties or
forties. Men in their sixties also claim to be in their
forties.

Most of the sexy photos are not of the posters, they
are part of the 'Second Life' experience.

You have to see it for what it is; here is this female,
seventy pounds overweight, looked like Miss Mud Turtle
on her best day, gets a photo off the net and uses it
for her avatar.

She creates a cuddley name and an invented life
and goes after men or whom she thinks is a man...
She wants to hear all those lovely phrases of desire
which she's never heard in Real Life, (except on T.V.).

So she lives vicariously on the Net.

You must recall the famous story of 'Miranda'.
She had a very nice voice and somehow got
the private phone numbers of celebs and would
talk to them on the phone and have this relationship

Eventually one of the chaps wasn't taking a blurry
photo, wanted to meet what he thought was a
slender, beautiful Scandanavian type, and saw
Miranda, who was in her fifties, squat with a big
mole on her face.

(Vanity Fair wrote about it).

For years Miranda enjoyed her fantasy world.

[JubesInquest]

Some one has watched a bit too much Fatal Attraction

Yep, I have the movie at home. LOL!

For years Miranda enjoyed her fantasy world.

LOL, I guess she did!

[kaylar]

I didn't like Fatal Attraction at all, in fact I
just shut it off..it was creepy...and I've seen
it before in RL.

Your points were valid, of course.

Miranda had a great time; it was said that
Billy Joel wrote; "Mandy" for her.

But the fantasy world aspect can't be removed,
as well as the fact that these sites are prime venues
for prostitutes as well as predators.

One just doesn't take them seriously.

[misskitty3]

hello girls

I am happy that I have so many responses. He has a myspace account b/c all of our friends do, and we both went through a period where we wanted to contact friends from high school.

he doesn't talk to her, or even go on myspace anymore. or if he does, its rarely. i haven't noticed any more comments from her on his page, so that is a good sign hopefully. I just wish he would delete her from his friends. but i can't tell him what to do or ask him to do it, cause what would be the point? this is my petty problem not his.

i think that men are so naive about women flirting with them sometimes. the way she was acting around him, it was obvious, but all he could talk about was how bad at history she was. that's why he invited her over to study. i must admitt that she is not smart, so i don't blame him for wanting to help.

i think that i don't have anything to worry about. we are married (no kids) and he has no interest in complicating what he has in our relationship.

thanks for all the input, i'll try to hold back the jealousy and just be more aware than he is!

[Fallen1]

he doesn't talk to her, or even go on myspace anymore. or if he does, its rarely. i haven't noticed any more comments from her on his page, so that is a good sign hopefully.

Please forgive me for putting this little seed of doubt out there, but when I was in a similar situation with my s/o the flirting by the girl was not done out in the open where it could be seen on his page as a comment, it was done via the private messaging. I am certainly not trying to rain on your parade or cast doubt on your husband, I just wanted you to be aware of this avenue of communication on myspace if you didn't already know.

But the fact that he is rarely visiting the site certainly does sound like things have worked out for the better with you.

[misskitty3]

yeah i know...

there could be private messaging going on, but how am i to know? i'm not going into his account to check b/c last time i did that, i found something i didn't like and i was angry at him even though i shouldn't have been snooping.

i can say that i trust my husband. i don't trust women like her. i don't think any of us do! plus, he has told me all that they have said to each other, and that he was weirded out by the fact that she wanted him to hang out with her at 2 am without me there!

we are both so busy in our lives that neither of us has time for myspace anyway. and any free time that we have is spent with each other, or him playing VG and me watching sitcoms! LOL!

[kaylar]

Important Point


Although Kitty's situation is virtually resolved,
the wider issue still bears some discussion.

Men are idiots.
A gal smiles, wides out her leg and a man's
brain slips to his pelvis.

In Jamaica, periodically some gal will come
from England and make a fuss over some nobody.
He's so ****** he doesn't think...why is this woman
going crazy over me?

The next thing is she'll tell him she's taking him up
to England, and pay for his passport and VISA,
and then, of course, he has some cocaine to
swallow.

Before England cracked down, most of the smugglers
used the one in four...that is, four idiots on the plane.
First caught in Jamaica, Second caught in Britian, and
of the next two, only one has to get through.

So the idiot who gets caught in Jamaica, he's in
prison. The idiot who gets caught in England,
he's in prison then deported. One of the others
might have a bag burst, so he dies, or he's caught
in customs.

The moron who gets through, believing some female
is in love with him will be taken somewhere, given
a strong laxative, and when all those bags are out
he's left where he is.

Now this smuggling went on for years, and I would
often tell groups of boys about this.

In every group of twelve, at least two, sometimes
more, who hear what I say and then when the
gal wides out her leg, forget everything, and wind
up calling me from prison.

Men rarely thing. why is this woman running me down?
They think; "Oh, I'm Sexy, yup yup I'm sexy."