[misskitty3]

I don't know if anyone remembers my post on the myspace jealousy, but it was about a girl that wouldn't leave hubby alone even though he wanted her to, and he didn't even think she wanted him!

well, he went to a sporting event last night and it turns out she is a cheerleader for our city's team. so, he came home and said that she was near his seat dancing near him and they chatted for a little bit. she was like, "why don't you talk to me anymore?" (realize he hasn't talked to her in 8 months or longer) and he said, "uh, cause my wife doesn't like you!" so, he also said that she made it clear she was single by mentioning it a bunch of times. he brushed her off then, i guess and he came home and told me all about it.

i told him, "See, she was after you, and you thought i was nuts for being jealous!" (because back when this happened, he was very sure that she was happy in her relationship and she wasn't after him) and he was like, "I didn't think it back then, but it was obvious that she was thinking that way by how many times she said that she was single!"

so,
1. I'm proud of him for telling me right away what happened
2. I'm proud of him for telling this girl what was up!
3. I'm proud of him for realizing that when it comes to girls like her, I'm always going to be right, and he should just listen to me

i was so upset about this before cause i thought that maybe i was just being jealous, but deep down it bothered me to the extent of not trusting her and wanting hubby to stay away! i feel better about myself and about hubby!

talk to ya'll later!

[Fallen1]

Hooray for happy endings! Glad to see things have turned out well for you.

[LadyLane]

Yay for communication!! Men are just sometimes a little slow accept that we know for sure when someone is after our man!

[anonymouswhitefemale]

I think my partner is wrong about it quite a lot, she always develops irrational dislike for any girl I meet, and thinks they're after me.

Either she's generally overjealous or I'm super hot. I prefer the latter...

[Franny&Zooey]

Haha. I think that a majority of girls my boyfriend meets would like to "get to know him better", and he doesn't see it. So far, I've only proven three of the girls. One of them he dated for about two weeks, four years ago. When they crossed paths again she went out of her way to be where we were, and she randomly texted him. I told him she was trying to get him back and he denied that that was her plan. I found her myspace and on her About Me, I quote, "John* and I are going to get back together!" He trusts my instincts now.

*Changed name.