Ya, this is him , my hb
he is never romantic , we've been married for over 16 years, I can still count with my fingers how many times in the past he has been thoughtful about sending little romantic gestures ( gifts, cards) for any special occasions. He just has a thought of special occasions are simple, just go out for supper. But I like more than that. I told him, he probably not listening.
This past wedding anniversary we had, I got a card (Ya,I should be happy) and 2 bags of 1 of my favourite chips. Right, I pulled out my chair in the a.m and saw these chips on chair, right, I'm thinking, I eat these kind of chips probably 100 times a year, so I should be happy now that to receive something on our anniversary vs those years that with nothing?
the card I got , I torn it to pieces right after reading it. I don't know why but I was very upset. The card was full of pre printed massages , all that he wrote in it was " to my dearest wife" and end with his name, I don't know, maybe I'm a difficult woman now or Ive given up on him.
he's never sensible, every now and then, I feel like hugging or just cuddle up with my love one. From day 1 since I've been with him, he never shows this kinda of " love" . I sat right next to him, I cuddled him, nothing in return. He left for bathroom and back , never cuddled me back etc. I slowly loosing interest towards that gestures & kept myself busy since .
1 time in the past, there was this huge thing of 1 time in so many years of meteor showers. We stayed up till very late past 1-2am to watch this show. I felt nothing watching it with him. I thought it should be amazing and romantic, but I felt sleepy instead.
He's always negative. Kids complaint enough, God knows how much I've gotten from his negativity. I don't think he can ever change much from his negativity. I've Botox to reduce my crow feet, he never complimented nor mentioning anything until 1 day I happily told him , he Cokely said " I noticed" but it ended there. Then he came back & said" won't you worry about long term side effects later, cancer causing etc" , I was mad and said ," I rather die early beautiful" .
We watched a recent movie by Jodie Foster, he commented she looks old, well I said, " she's doing pretty good at her age at over 50's" then we seen Arnold Swartzenegger, he said again," he's very old now". I wonder if hb knows he's same age as Arnold actually.
The kids helped to pull garbage cans in , he complaint they were placed too far apart. Kids talked back by saying " I won't pull back those cans anymore next time, you can do it perfectly" . To me, I probably will start saying " thank you " first before any complaint.
I used to never understand why some women said men are a waste of time and lots going homosexual, now I understand why.
he is never romantic , we've been married for over 16 years, I can still count with my fingers how many times in the past he has been thoughtful about sending little romantic gestures ( gifts, cards) for any special occasions. He just has a thought of special occasions are simple, just go out for supper. But I like more than that. I told him, he probably not listening.
This past wedding anniversary we had, I got a card (Ya,I should be happy) and 2 bags of 1 of my favourite chips. Right, I pulled out my chair in the a.m and saw these chips on chair, right, I'm thinking, I eat these kind of chips probably 100 times a year, so I should be happy now that to receive something on our anniversary vs those years that with nothing?
the card I got , I torn it to pieces right after reading it. I don't know why but I was very upset. The card was full of pre printed massages , all that he wrote in it was " to my dearest wife" and end with his name, I don't know, maybe I'm a difficult woman now or Ive given up on him.
he's never sensible, every now and then, I feel like hugging or just cuddle up with my love one. From day 1 since I've been with him, he never shows this kinda of " love" . I sat right next to him, I cuddled him, nothing in return. He left for bathroom and back , never cuddled me back etc. I slowly loosing interest towards that gestures & kept myself busy since .
1 time in the past, there was this huge thing of 1 time in so many years of meteor showers. We stayed up till very late past 1-2am to watch this show. I felt nothing watching it with him. I thought it should be amazing and romantic, but I felt sleepy instead.
He's always negative. Kids complaint enough, God knows how much I've gotten from his negativity. I don't think he can ever change much from his negativity. I've Botox to reduce my crow feet, he never complimented nor mentioning anything until 1 day I happily told him , he Cokely said " I noticed" but it ended there. Then he came back & said" won't you worry about long term side effects later, cancer causing etc" , I was mad and said ," I rather die early beautiful" .
We watched a recent movie by Jodie Foster, he commented she looks old, well I said, " she's doing pretty good at her age at over 50's" then we seen Arnold Swartzenegger, he said again," he's very old now". I wonder if hb knows he's same age as Arnold actually.
The kids helped to pull garbage cans in , he complaint they were placed too far apart. Kids talked back by saying " I won't pull back those cans anymore next time, you can do it perfectly" . To me, I probably will start saying " thank you " first before any complaint.
I used to never understand why some women said men are a waste of time and lots going homosexual, now I understand why.
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