It had to deal with cleaning, so he's an uber driver and need to work as much as he can on the weekend. He asked what I was doing today and I got upset because he did want me to help him clean. I got upset because he took the day I asked for cleaning to go take a salsa class which is Monday's. I'm upset cause other nights there is salsa class and he chose to do it. Kind of not working with me on deciding a schedule for another day. I like to know what I need to do for the week. It makes me feel secure.
His dad had prostate cancer and is recovering from surgery so he's been helping out. He picks me up from work everyday and drops me off to work. He said that I don't understand anything all I know is that I get picked up from work and get dropped off everyday. He has a son and ex wife and even said to me that I'm not the one that has to deal with an ex wife and court in which I replied I do ****ing deal with an ex wife just in a different way.
I also explained to him instead of always going out and going to the next salsa social why can't we do something else. He said it's a form a therapy. I know this is going all over the place right now but I just have to get it all out.
I understand the stress but he doesn't even talk to me when he is. He says it's cause I try to twist his words around. Sorry for being human and getting upset as well.
I know I should be understanding this is hard on my end too. I just don't know honestly. If you can make sense of this please can anyone offer me some advice. There are other things that go through my mind in which contributes to me getting upset of what he's done. Maybe I should just take a break from him like I've initially thought i just seem to be afraid.
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