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Stopped birth control, had one period, and not another since! Help?
Hello, I have been having a slight problem... My husband and I decided that we wanted to have a baby a few months ago and so I stopped my birth control in August after my last sugar pills. I calculated when I was ovulating by using a calendar as well as listening to my body (it's easy for me to tell when I am). We did everything like normal, knowing I was ovulating, and about 4 days later I noticed very light spotting when I went to the bathroom. The next 3 days it was brownish discharge. 2 weeks later on September 28th, I started my period which was definitely regular. My next period was supposed to start last week between the 25th and 27th...but I am late. I have taken HPT after HPT and all have been negative. I have been having awful lower back aches for the past week and a half, the week before my period was supposed to start I had constipation (which is WEIRD before my period, usually it's the opposite!), I also had heartburn for 2 days and have off and on nausea and sensitivity to smells. My breasts are slightly tender to touch. I am so confused and would like to know if the delay in my period is because of pregnancy or because of stopping birth control?? PLEASE HELP! -
If you have just come off the pill it can take some time for your body to adjust. I recently stopped taking the pill and i havent had a period in nearly 3 months now.
Sometimes you will experience pregnancy like symptoms after stopping the pill but that is only for a short period of time, however it can be different for everyone.
Just keep trying! be mindful your body still needs to adjust
Good luck!
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My doctor put me on the pill because of horrible period pain, but I had to stop taking it after 5 months, the side effects were a real problem for my body so the doctor told me to stop taking the pill anymore. I am 30 years old and have never taken contraceptives before; this was the first and last time; it has been now 7 months since i am no longer on the pill and my period still hasn’t come back, I have just a very light spotting which I cannot call period, please girls if any of you has experienced this, I just want my normal period to come back, it wasn’t light or heavy before being on the pill, it was normal flow, and I just want it back; since I have no period anymore, I feel headaches and very fainted with no strength in my body; I just want to know why my period stopped completely since I started the pill and why it hasn’t come back even now after 7 months from stopping taking the pill; I need an urgent response, what are these contraceptive pills doing to my body? Had I known, I would have never taken the pill from the beginning. In 4 days time I have an appointment with a gynecologist, I want an explanation from them.
Before taking the pills, I was just fineComment
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Hello Hope4bump,
Just wanted to say I am literally having the same thing happen to me. If you figure out what is going on with you can you let me know so maybe i can stop worring. I stopped taking birth control 2 months ago and had my first period after about 33 days after so a little late but nothing crazy. As for the second period still nothing even if it was late like last time it would have started on November 4 and still nothing. I have taken 2 test both negative. Heart burn, constipation, cramps, headaches, upset stomach at times, and i am very tired lately. Not sure what to do.Comment
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going through the same
Hey Jess, the same thing is happening to me also but you replied to a messgae that was made in 2010 lol. Well i am now 17 days late and have not yet taken a test because i am going to wait until i am 21 days late. Have you taken a HPT? & How late are you?Hello Hope4bump,
Just wanted to say I am literally having the same thing happen to me. If you figure out what is going on with you can you let me know so maybe i can stop worring. I stopped taking birth control 2 months ago and had my first period after about 33 days after so a little late but nothing crazy. As for the second period still nothing even if it was late like last time it would have started on November 4 and still nothing. I have taken 2 test both negative. Heart burn, constipation, cramps, headaches, upset stomach at times, and i am very tired lately. Not sure what to do.Comment
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