[PJhavinfunagain]

we struggle with this a bit. Dh does not brush every day. It was not taught to him as a child. It is easier now that we are teaching our kids to brush. Still struggling to get DH to Help me get them to do it 2 times a day. Although they are good at once per day.

Anyhow... I will not kiss my DH if I know it has been a few days. He has learned if he want's some good lovin he needs to shower and brush. Guys can be so gross sometimes! I can not belive how long he will go without a shower!

I agree nagging will not help but I would say no brushing means no kissing!

[kerry-]

That is proper disgusting

[Guest]

have not had that problem with my SO, but do with the 2 boys. what has kind of helped is picking out an electric tooth brush for them. neither liked the one that went around in circles, but seem to like the one that kind of vibrates back and forth. still a bit of a chore, but nowhere near as bad.

[Mes T]

I'd like to say that this thread has finally gotten me to floss regularly, after years of not giving a hoot about what my dentists tell me..

[kira]

I can't brush my teeth too often. It wears on them too much and I get very sensitive teeth. I can't eat or drink anything too hot or cold if I brush more than once daily. It results in pain severe enough to have my head on the table. I've tried all kinds of toothpaste and the sensitive teeth formulas are only worse. My wisdom teeth cracked because some toothpaste got left back there. I also had cavities all the time until I stopped brushing my teeth as much with toothpaste. Haven't had a cavity since and they start to come back if I brush daily or more often with the usual type toothpaste. I rinse with peroxide frequently, scope about once daily (cannot use listerine or it causes the same problems), and every other day I brush and clean my teeth very very very well with baking soda. Always making sure to rinse everything thoroughly out of my mouth because anything left behind could cause more problems with my teeth.

Maybe try having him use something other than regular toothpaste. Some people can't stand it and for some it's very harmful. You can get baking soda based mixes in the health food section or at organic stores. There is also tooth soap but it doesn't taste great so not as helpful to get someone to brush more often. Otherwise the bubbling of rinsing with peroxide will remove more from the teeth than mouthwash even if mouthwash is more antibacterial.

[Mes T]

I can't brush my teeth too often. It wears on them too much and I get very sensitive teeth. I can't eat or drink anything too hot or cold if I brush more than once daily. It results in pain severe enough to have my head on the table. I've tried all kinds of toothpaste and the sensitive teeth formulas are only worse. My wisdom teeth cracked because some toothpaste got left back there. I also had cavities all the time until I stopped brushing my teeth as much with toothpaste. Haven't had a cavity since and they start to come back if I brush daily or more often with the usual type toothpaste. I rinse with peroxide frequently, scope about once daily (cannot use listerine or it causes the same problems), and every other day I brush and clean my teeth very very very well with baking soda. Always making sure to rinse everything thoroughly out of my mouth because anything left behind could cause more problems with my teeth.

Maybe try having him use something other than regular toothpaste. Some people can't stand it and for some it's very harmful. You can get baking soda based mixes in the health food section or at organic stores. There is also tooth soap but it doesn't taste great so not as helpful to get someone to brush more often. Otherwise the bubbling of rinsing with peroxide will remove more from the teeth than mouthwash even if mouthwash is more antibacterial.

Hey thanks for your post... My boyfriend gets cavities VERY easily, even though he brushes, flosses, the whole deal. Maybe he hasn't considered that it's the type of toothpaste and the frequency with which he uses it that are helping to create problems...

And by the way, I too brush once daily (and floss now) and haven't had any problems.

[aliG]

A medium sized dish full of gum is the only dental insurance my company provides. I had my front tooth busted out as a kid and it's the only tooth that I'm not worried about getting a cavity - it's fake. So, without dental insurance I've realized how important it really is to brush and take care of my teeth. Resolution for the new year, floss.

[redlily]

Like what the others say, yes it's totally a deal breaker. It's like a warning sign that can help you see what your future can be like. He can't even take care of himself what more if you have your own family. (Excuse me by the way if I may hurt others for this)

I also complain about my boyfriend who always smokes and only brush his teeth twice a day. Whenever his breath smells bad, I always tell it to him. I'm thankful enough that he listens to me and brushes his teeth.

[Guest]

some people consider brushing teeth as a hard work.
i used to not brush my teeth but now i have unhealth teeth and this is the result.

[Becca_angel]

my ex hated the taste of mint.
he also hated his brush
the taste and feel used to make him gag.

so we brought him some non 'mint' tasting toothpaste.
we also brought him smokers mouthwash
and a new softer toothbrush.

i went on holiday to turkey, and when i came back the toothbrush looked brand new the toothpaste looked like it hadnt been used
and the mouthwash wasnt even open!

i understand your problem, mabye you should go with him the next time he has a dentist appointment and make this clear to them
they will be able to help you greatly

GOOD LUCK!