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  • Anxiously Waiting
    Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 28

    Painful entry

    Here's the scoop: I have always found it extremely painful right where a main enters during sex. It feels almost like I am ripping. I have tried lubrication (lots of different kinds), extended foreplay, even tried using a small vibrator at first. The thing is it only hurts at the entry point, sometimes to the point that I can't help but cry! Also sometimes there is a little blood after.

    I guess its not only during sex, because I just about kicked the doctor over during my pap test to! Whoops...

    Any suggestions or advice???
  • sourpuss
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2006
    • 3581

    Go slow, very, very slow.

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    • sweety79
      Member
      • Mar 2009
      • 27

      Look up vaginismus.

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      • sweety79
        Member
        • Mar 2009
        • 27

        look up vaginismus

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        • Nadiayah
          Junior Member
          • Sep 2009
          • 4

          The same happen to me, my first sexual experiment so bad that i cry, even after i did it couple of time. I stop having sex completely, so a couple of days ago i went to do a pap smear, the gynecologist had to stop because i wouldn't stop crying. The funniest part was that i didn't have to do it since it was an annual check up.

          I don't think i can go back to a gynecologist again... it was so painful. i felt i was being ripped apart

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          • Nadiayah
            Junior Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 4

            Thank you for posting this, i had the exact symptoms, maybe now i don't have to warded of my doctor, i can just speak to her about my symptoms.

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