i lost my virginty for the first time, i also had anal sex for the first time. but i was drunk. i noticed that my vagina towards where your butt and it meet was hurting when i sat a certain way, it feels like a lump under my skin, and it hurts when its touch, or when i try to put pressure down to go number 2. i dont know what it is, and i'm scared. i havent told my parents yet i was hopeing someone could tell me whats wrong first. and if its serious or not, should i be worrried? please help!
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You may have a little tear or bruise. Drink lots of fluids and a healthy diet so your bowel movements will be easier. It sounds like drinking would be better left out of your life. Did you use any protection? Any lube? If you went from anal to vaginal you could end up with a heck of a bacterial infection. -
no protection, vaginal first. thanks for replying. its starting to feel some what better today, anyone think it could be anything serious? & i dont think i'll be drinking for a long long time.Comment
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