[sammysweetheart]

Well, I'm 21 years old. I discovered that i have a hairy but at the age of 13. I started to shave it and that didnt help. Now i am married but we never had sex yet. We are planning to do it on our honeymoon this weekend. I am still hairy and now im all stubbly. I have pimples and bumps everywhere. Im scared of what he's going to think of me. I dont know how to get rid of the hair, and bumps, and pimples. What should i do??

[tesoro]

Have you seen a doctor about this? If not, I think you should. That's where you'll get the best advice on how to treat this problem.

In the meantime, you can try using an exfoliant when you shower on the area. That should help to get rid of any ingrown hairs and some pimples too.

We all have embarrassing things we don't want others to know about. I'm sure he's got one or two of them also.

[sammysweetheart]

Thanks(= Ill try the exfoliant.

[Guest]

You can prolly use ( Nair or Veet) on your butt, the doctor can give you something for the pimples..

[sadgrl]

again...I'd definitely see the doc especially if the ingrowns are bad. AlsoI'd opt for waxing..less in grown hairs, the hair is gone for longer, and it's smoother.

[missbutterfly]

There is no better time than to be honest with him though right, cause you can't always hide that if he really cares for you it wont matter! I think though that he will accept you after all he married you for who you are! I suggest to just start getting it waxed somewhere you can also do your vagina while your there, you can also bleach it. For long term treatment get laser removal. But again if your married to this guy just come out clean he probably has something hes shy about too! Know that your healthy happy and in love.

* Put some Aloe Vera Gel on the bumps to help the pain and heal faster, and no more shaving it may turn to ingrown hairs.

[missbutterfly]

By the way I have a dark hairy stomach trail and few stray dark nipple hair hah..it's not super hairy but its dark and there. In some countries hair is HOT not every where thinks the American way. I use to be worried about it so I shaved it that made it worse, so now I just trim it a tad and I just leave it alone. I only trim my vagina as well I don't even shave that a short trim is about all it gets. I use to turn the lights out. I came to find out with my partner after finally telling him that he thinks the hair is sexy and it turns him on! So you never know till you tell him or show him, he will prob be more interested in the sex anyways. Just wanted to share that with you.