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  • sara52
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 2

    Feeling baby kicks but neggitve tests.

    My husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for 4 months now and for the past 3 months my cycle is regular always on time and always 5 days long. This month my period came a day early (not a big deal thought maybe my count was a little off) and it started out as normal but got kinda heavy and stopped a little, didn't think anything about it cuz it always gets light before i go to bed, when i woke up in the morning all i had was brown discharge like i would at the end of my period. My period lasted a total of 20 hours and it was gone. I've been feeling pregnant, tired all the time, sick to my stomach headaches, and i've even been having movment like phantom kicks and last night it felt like it did when i was pregnant with my son when he would twist and turn. I've taken like a dozen pregnacy tests in 3 months but i can't shake the feeling that i'm pregnant. I've taken 3 of them in the past 3 days. I know i'm not crazy i feel movement and kicks and you can actually see it on my stomach, i had my mom look at my stomach and put her hand on my belly and she can feel and see kicking and moving.
    My doctor wont do any pregnancy tests unless its 6 weeks after a complete missed period.
    I don't know what is going on and i'm freaked out and there is nothing else i can do. Is this just phantom kicks and missed cycle becuase of stress and just weird that its both at once or is it really possible i can be a few months pregnant? Right now i just need to feel like i'm not crazy and some how this is normal. Has this happened to anyone else?
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    It is possible as you want a baby so bad, that you are having what is called a "Phantom Pregnancy", that being all the signs appear to be there, you even feel pregnant but you are not...

    I don't think you are crazy, but you will have to wait out another month to ascertain how that period goes, if it occurs, or seek another Doctor and ask for a blood test...
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • sara52
      Junior Member
      • Oct 2011
      • 2

      That's what i was wondering, i've had phantom kicks a lot when my son was first born and it reminded me of that, but i do want to be so maybe i'm just looking at it any way possible to be an actual pregnancy.

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