I am a 45 yr old female that found out after a CT Scan 2 months ago (CT Scan was due to broken ribs - making sure I wasn't having internal bleeding) and they spotted a "complex cyst" on my right ovary. My physician scheduled me for a sonogram (viginal) to get a better look at it. It took me that long to get to that appt. due to recovering from broken ribs. Anywho.. the sonogram showed seperations in it and so she referred me to a OBGYN that is in the same hospital. When I went for my "evaluation appt." the GYN did a full pap and feel around to see if the cyst would move or something like that. She then talked to me "in Dr. Language" that due to the size and looks of the cyst, she would suggest me have it taking out. She said from the looks of the photos, it does not appear that she will be able to save my ovary. Now.. when I was 15, I had my left ovary taking out so it's my last one.
She ordered a bunch of blood tests that same day, which I took. I'm not sure of everything she tested for but I do know she said she did a CV 125 (I think that was the name of it) and it came out "normal" and all the rest of my blood tests came out normal as well. I found this out yesterday when she called me with the results of the blood tests. She scheduled me for a endometrial biopsy (not sure of sp?) for next Thursday. She said it's uncomfy and due to my lack of pain tolerance, she is mailing me a percocet and a valium for this procedure. Due to ignorance, I was like.. "OK".. However, I did ask her, "If you're telling me I have to have a OPEN surgery and you're taking out my LAST overy/cyst and I'm assuming fallopian tube .. why can't you do that test when I'm put under? She said, "You live in America, you have the right to deny the test but I wouldn't be a good doctor if I didn't try to be able to as much prepared for your sugery beforehand". That made sence to me yesterday! Now today... I looked up that test and OMG.. it sounds horrible! I never had a child nor do I, giving my age at this time, expected to have one.. but people are saying how much it hurts. I guess my questions are...
Does it make any sense to anyone to have this test done even though... she is going to give me a open surgery (within a month due to back up) anyway? If I'm all the way open, why wouldn't they just do it at the same time?
Is a 7cm complex cyst on an ovary THAT big where I have to have a open surgery and she is already adiment about why she couldn't do the small incisions?
I fear she might be surgery hungry or something. I would have felt better if she said, "I will start with a lap. and if I deam it can't be done then we will have to tear you apart"...
Why couldn't she just take the dang cyst out and not my ovary??!!! I know a radiologist/cancer doc/her seen my picture results.. but why wouldn't a surgeon try not to take your last ovary?
She said she doesn't need to take out the rest of my "stuff" unless she gets in there and finds out she needs to.. What's the point of having it all in there without an ovary?
I don't want to go through surgical menopause. I'm scared to death of it and to have to take 6 weeks off work? REALLY.. who .. I mean WHO can afford that??!!! Well maybe some but I can't.
She keeps saying, "we don't like what we see and it's too big".. but all my blood tests are coming back in the norm and I dunno... I'm figuring 7cm is not that big! like what... 3 inches or something.
Anyway.. I guess after all this "worring".. I'm mostly scared that she (gyn/surgeon) is jumping to a conclusion that may be a bit aggressive without really knowing the facts.. OR Worse... she knows more then what she's telling me?
Any insight of anything would be much appreciated.
My endometrial biopsy is scheduled for next Thursday (Nov. 1, 2012).
Thank you for your time,
Marie
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