As you can see i am a boy. My Girlfriend and i had sex for the first time yesterday.
Here are some facts that might be important.
We're 20 years old, Very much inlove. have been dating for the
last six months. She is a virgin and i have had sex with 2 girls before
her. Im her first, for Everything, even seeing her shirtless.
I have some question, some come from my own insecurities, but also just
a desire to know what is "Natural" and what. well, isn't.
My girlfriend can orgasm pretty quickly if i use my fingers to penetrate her and
play with the clit. If i play with only one of them individually its still very hard for
her to guide herself to an orgasm - also it took us about 2 months till her clit got
used to the direct touch of my fingers, at first it hurt, then it hurt and felt good,
and eventually it just felt good.
Yesterday we had sex for the first time. it was spontaneous, she was very wet
too.
I have a few questions so ill make them seperate
1.It was fun for her, really SLIGHTLY painful, no more then that. the first time
we did it offcourse we were both kinda, excited and shocked, over all we did it
about 5 times. Still, she didn't go "Crazy" (as in, it didn't make her cum or get
close to it). I find that odd for a few reasons.
one, being that a once or twice she almost came when i used only one finger
to penetrate her vagina, so why not from my penis?
two, the other two girls i was with (far from virgins) enjoyed it alot, and
even came from the penetration. im not sure if its small or big but my penis
is slightly less wide then 3 fingers, and girth is more obviously, should i be
worrid it isn't big enough to satisfy her (Which used to be a virgin a day ago)
but was enough to satisfy two none virgins?
2.she felt some burn in her vagina the day after, it was a-bit sore for her when
she sat down, and also said she "felt me" inside her even over an hour after the
penetration. also there was some odd feeling inside her lower abdomen (these
are also reasons why its hard for me to believe she didn't enjoy it cause of
a lack of friction)
anyways - Are these things normal? the slight burns and pressure in lower belly?
does it go away?
3.(and last) i asked one of the girls ive slept with before if sex at first was already
amazing. she said that not at all and at first was like "Huh? is this what everyone
go crazy about?" but she said that after a month and a half+, the pain slowly faded
away, and the ok feeling became amazing and then it became really fun. does that
make sense? is the vagina, like the clit? and takes time to "Get used" to the sensation
in order to enjoy it very much? and that is odd before if the penis is alot larger then
two fingers why then? or maybe that is why? bigger friction = more time to get used to it?
Im really sorry about the length of this msg, But i could really use the help.
im feeling really insecure, if my size is an issue, all our love, all out passion,
all the will to spent our lives together matters not, because i won't be able
to give her the amazing sex she deserves.. and she deserves the best.
Thank you for reading. <3
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