labia question
I've read a lot of threads about this subject on here but I just wanted to ask for myself. One of my labia hangs down about an inch. I can usually hide it and it never irritates me in jeans or anything, but I'm really self conscious about it. I haven't had sex yet so I'm worried a guy will be grossed out by it or reject me because of it. I know if a guy does do that then he isn't worth being with, but it would still be embarrassing. Help!
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I'm sure there are lots of us with this problem... I too have one labia that hangs longer then the other. I am also embarrassed about how it looks but in my past experiences it has been fine. Just remember that not every guy has a straight penis & that is far worse sometimes! -
The body is perfectly assymetrical...meaning that we are not exactly the same on each side.
Do you notice how right handed women usually have a larger right breast?
All breasts, (unless implants) are different from the other. It is a given that this would also apply to your labial lips.
I do belive even men have some difference in the size of their testicals. At least that has been my personal experience
In the big picture, I am fairly certain a caring lover could care less. He would be more concerned with how turned on you are, or he is, or how good you feel to him.
That ruler would be no where around and if it is...offer to measure him instead.
Creativity is the ability to illustrate what is outside the box from within the box.Comment
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Well nc23 I understand that some men find a long labia a real turn on. Any man who gets into you will probably love it!Comment
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It's perfectly normal and if it doesn't bother you (as in, cause you actual inconvenience) then you shouldn't let any man complain about it. If he does, he's not worth your time.Well some people say that you shouldn't tempt fate, and for them I can not disagree. But I never learned nothing from playing it safe; I say fate should not tempt me. I take my chances.Comment
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It will most likely be a turn-on rather than a turn-off.
I know I would dig it!
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A surgical labiaplasty (Yes, it is a real word and a real procedure) is an option. But since nobody has complained yet.... why bother?Comment
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LOL, I'm trying to imagine a guy saying no to a vagina because of a lip.
No, wait...can't do it.
The way I see it is this: if you're having sex with someone, you should be able to trust them completely. If you think a guy is going to say something about it, or even care then he's not worth your time.Comment
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