She isnt having an orgasm with me

Phoebee

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12-03-2008, 11:25 AM

Originally posted by silvertae

Seriously, listen to her. The more you pressure her and whine about it the more frustrated she is likely to get with you. If she says she is enjoying things, even if she doesn't have an orgasm, believe her! Constantly questioning her and worrying her about it will not help at all. Let her know you want to make things good for both of you and that you are ready and willing to listen to any constructive criticism. And then LET IT BE.

AMEN!

A couple of ideas. Take turns. Give her an orgasm with oral sex. Then go to intercourse for your own climax. Or buy a Hitachi Vibe and put it between you when your doing intercourse it works for us.

"Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." ~ Janis Joplin
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