[Peace of Mind]

Hello! Being a guy, I am wondering what is the truth about penis size and sex. I ask for help because I am insecure and sensitive. I would appreciate any help. I have researched for numerous hours before asking a gynecologist about my penis and it's size and gave up because I find different information on every website.
I am relatively young at 18 and am confused if my penis size would continue to grow. I understand that the average size of a man's penis can range from 4 to 7 inches, some sites state that the average length in inches may be 4-5, 5-6.25, 5.5, 6-7, and so on. However, the majority of scientific sites state that penises are about 5.5 inches in length and roughly 4.5-5 inches in girth, I am not sure if this is a lie.
I am about 5.8 inches long and about 5.0 inches in girth circumference. I hope this this is fine for women who are under 5'6" tall. I am 5'8" (pretty short) and am insecure about my height as well. I know that a woman's vaginal depth does not exact correlate with her height, but it does have a consistency and the vagina has approximately 4 inches of feel when aroused.
Am I small? If so, is there anything I can do?
Also, my girlfriend, perhaps the most wonderful and sweetest person I will ever meet, has asked me, embarrassingly and nervously, if I will "make love to her". I thought for a moment and replied, "okay". I had not thought about our feelings of attachment and department for college, at the time, and I do not want to be fully committed to a relationship in which she most likely break up during college. I am fully committed to this first relationship. I had never had sex before and am afraid that if we have sex it will break both my moral and emotional code. I am not sure if I should have sex before marriage; however, women seem to be more promiscuous today (I apologize for the generalization) and I am not sure if I should have sex or not, although I really would like to on a pure emotional physical basis. She asked me if I would marry her. I feel as if I love her, but am not sure if I do, since love is only truly felt by two more experienced individuals. Truthfully, she lacks maturity and she is overprotected. I feel that she does not see our relationship as long term into college. I know that relationships cannot last in two separate ones... especially if a person majors in pharmaceuticals, and another in English and Humanities.
Religiously, I believe in a higher power in the like of Judaism and Christianity, but am not very strict religiously. I am not entirely sure about sex.
I have a severe self confidence issue. Although I am supposedly very very attractive, handsome, helpful, and a sweet perceptive person (many women tell me this), I feel so inferior to other men who are more social and funny. Therefore I am not sure if I am mature enough for sex, especially at my age, and especially because I do not understand myself. I also feel that I am
Perhaps sex will allow us to bond physically and emotionally and prevent a schism to form between us when we depart for college, or that it will give me experience with women in the future. I am worried that I will not meet a cute individual who is as sensitive as I am who is not as... promiscuous. I am afraid because so many women watch television shows such as Sex in the City, Coupling, and etc.
I appreciate that you've read this far. Thank you!
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Also, if possible can you answer me one last question?
I am planning on attending a accelerated pharmaceutical private science college on 6 years for a doctorate degree and and additional 3 for business and managing so I can earn a high payroll in marketing drugs, in which I will also minor in art and English. By that time, I will be 27. I also still training for the Olympics in fencing and will be ready within 4-6 years. I am also a (literally) a gifted artist and enjoy literature. However, I will not have the education in these fields. I am a very open and soft and kind person, also easily hurt and sensitive. I am sad because I am not incredibly funny or confident, although I am supposedly feminine handsome. Will a girl love me even though I will be a boring scientist and... despite the fact that I am Taiwanese?
I have been very confused/upset for months and not ready for college.

[hello_pitty]

You seem like a normal size...But if you don't feel comfortable having sex then don't! You don't need to and shouldn't unless you are ready.

Here is a thread on Penis size that you can read....it mnight help you a little with confidence

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/7605-penis-size-small.html

[silvertae]

You need to stop taking yourself so seriously. That's all I can say.

[zeos133]

a guy's perspective

a lot of guys worry about size. I did at your age. But don't worry, most guys don't sling big guns like you see in porn. Some girls care about size, but most will tell you its not important. I'm not sure if it will continue to grow, but don't worry you're right at average and you really have nothing to worry about.

As for having sex. Many guys your age might jump at the opportunity, the decision to have sex is still guided by your morals and intuition. If it doesn't feel right, then don't do it. Your situation is complicated by a relationship and I think you're doing the right thing by thinking about this decision. Your girlfriend sounds sweet, but you guys are very young and many times these relationships do not last into college. There is nothing wrong with waiting to have sex, even if you wait for marriage, but it might not be necessary. Just remember, it doesn't matter what others do or how many partners they've had, you create your own path. If you think you'll feel guilty sleeping with your girlfriend because you might breakup when you go to college, it might be best not to have sex. But if both of you want to try it knowing that the relationship might not last forever, then go for it.

Don't worry about finding a girl to love you in the future. More than likely you'll find a cute innocent brainy girl just like you to marry. There are plenty of girls that will marry a "boring scientist". Many girls are attracted to educated men. Its cool that you have your professional life planned out, but while you're pursuing this try to have some fun and have some hobbies. You will need something to talk about with girls other than science. I'm an economist, and my girlfriend works in fashion and PR. We rarely talk about the economy, unless I'm trying to put her to sleep. haha. The point is, she has no interest in what I do, but we have lots of fun doing other things together.

Good luck.

[Livelaughlove]

I am about 5.8 inches long and about 5.0 inches in girth circumference. I hope this this is fine for women who are under 5'6" tall. I am 5'8" (pretty short) and am insecure about my height as well.

I believe every guy wonders at one point if he his penis is adequate to satisfy his women.
The honest truth is. It only matters if you think it does. Your worries like every other guy stem from your lack of experience in the sack. Your just obsessing. Once you begin to have sex your worries will disappear.
our penis size ALONE HAS NO influence on how much you can satisfy women. It has to be accompanied by other forms of sexual arousal. Dirty talking, spanking, anticipation, licking etc.

Women are highly sexual creatures. At least in my experience. Think about it the have a organ specifically designed for sexual arousal. Clitorous. Others to learn about is the G-spot, A-spot, U-spot, clitoris. Those are just vaginal hot-spots. There is the rest of the body to explore. I just answered another post about a week ago on sex search my last post.

If you want to really satisfy a women learn about them. They are fascinating beings. Ive made women orgasm by talking to them faster then i did having sex with them.

Am I small? If so, is there anything I can do?

Your perfect.

Also, my girlfriend, perhaps the most wonderful and sweetest person I will ever meet, has asked me, embarrassingly and nervously, if I will "make love to her". I thought for a moment and replied, "okay".

Seems like you are having sex. If you want to be a great lover. Google David shade.

I had not thought about our feelings of attachment and department for college, at the time, and I do not want to be fully committed to a relationship in which she most likely break up during college. I am fully committed to this first relationship. I had never had sex before and am afraid that if we have sex it will break both my moral and emotional code. I am not sure if I should have sex before marriage; however, women seem to be more promiscuous today (I apologize for the generalization) and I am not sure if I should have sex or not, although I really would like to on a pure emotional physical basis.

Listen, I believe that your really going to miss out on alot of special women if you remain celibate. However it is your prerogative.

She asked me if I would marry her. I feel as if I love her, but am not sure if I do, since love is only truly felt by two more experienced individuals. Truthfully, she lacks maturity and she is overprotected. I feel that she does not see our relationship as long term into college. I know that relationships cannot last in two separate ones... especially if a person majors in pharmaceuticals, and another in English and Humanities.

Puppy love. ahhh... She is young like you maturity comes with age. She seems like a special lady. Treat her right.

I have a severe self confidence issue. Although I am supposedly very very attractive, handsome, helpful, and a sweet perceptive person (many women tell me this), I feel so inferior to other men who are more social and funny. Therefore I am not sure if I am mature enough for sex, especially at my age, and especially because I do not understand myself.

Wow dude. See a thread a started about confidence "Thoughts vs Beliefs...How to gain Confidence "

It takes a long time to gain the confidence you seek but it is possible and gives you a feeling like no other. It took me roughly 2-3 years to have a solid understanding of who I am. There is alot of bad material when it comes to building confidence.

If you something that will shake your world i suggest you google "Deep inner game by David deangelo".

I am worried that I will not meet a cute individual who is as sensitive as I am who is not as... promiscuous. I am afraid because so many women watch television shows such as Sex in the City, Coupling, and etc.

Dude your suffering. Your trying to control things that is out of your reach. Again take it from me. There are women out there that pride themselves on going out getting dressed just so they can shoot men down and there are women that will make you wake up the next morning and make you smile because there so special. It is up to you to be a good judge of character.

I am planning on attending a accelerated pharmaceutical private science college on 6 years for a doctorate degree and and additional 3 for business and managing so I can earn a high payroll in marketing drugs, in which I will also minor in art and English. By that time, I will be 27. I also still training for the Olympics in fencing and will be ready within 4-6 years. I am also a (literally) a gifted artist and enjoy literature.

So what are you trying to tell us.... Your going to be smart and rich... Awesome... Dont think thats going to get you the greatest lady in the world because it wont. What will is confidence and charisma.

However, I will not have the education in these fields. I am a very open and soft and kind person, also easily hurt and sensitive. I am sad because I am not incredibly funny or confident, although I am supposedly feminine handsome. Will a girl love me even though I will be a boring scientist and... despite the fact that I am Taiwanese?

Your shy because you don't want to do anything that may offend anyone. The problem with this is that it is boring and not attractive. You will notice its when you are not outcome dependent and you say whats on your mind is when people will be drawn to you espically women.

Talking about the weather is safe and will bore people.... Teasing and making jokes is a lot more risky but its what people want.
The great thing about humor and confidence is that it can be learned.

Please note: NOT GIRL EVER WANTS TO DATE A FEMININE GUY.

I have been very confused/upset for months and not ready for college.

so what do you want a shoulder to cry on.... You can only grow from overcoming your fears and the unknown.

Embrace it because life moves fast.

hope this helps

Live laugh and love

[WildChild]

Hi LLL. Nice to see you

[reilu]

Don't be a downer!!!

hey listen. if a girl is ever only concerned on the size of your package, then she's not worth it. i'm not saying your girl is, i was making reference to your fear in future girls. but it's your confidence that is going to be attractive. and girls worry about things like that too, like if their boobs are big enough. i'm tall and very slender, so my boobs are really, well, i'm an A cup.lol but its okay. this doesn't stop me from going out and meeting guys. my size isn't typically "desirable" by a majority of men, then again, who would want a man like that anyway? and for men, who would want a woman that only cares about size? (again, i don't mean to say your girl does) the truth is, most girls could care less. its more something that i've noticed that they find funny to talk about. i don't get it, but they seem to enjoy it. hey, take some pride in what you have. you have pride in yourself, and women will respect that. just don't turn into one of those guys who constantly has to tell you just how very large his package is!!! i have a friend like that. totally annoying. and also, you feel inferior to men who make jokes and are more talkative? DON'T!!! a lot of times those guys are just loud and annoying and turn out to be jerks! (i'm not trying to over generalize, i'm just saying from my experience!) you are unique in your way, and other people are unique in theirs. you'll find someone who loves you for you. i'm also your age, and have never experienced sex, but i'm in no rush. i want my first time to be special, even if its not with the one i will ultimately marry. don't have sex just to have sex. make sure you feel passionate about it. make sure it is LOVE, and not LUST. and if you are questioning it, its probably not the right time. but who knows?? i'm no sex expert. i will let you know when i experience it!! lol anyway, don't be so self concious. you're normal. not all of us girls are shallow, like not all guys are perverted jerks! lol TAKE SOME PRIDE IN YOURSELF BOY!!! i don't know if i helped at all , or if i just rambled! i hope i helped though

[jazz12]

man i kind of feel the same way you feel, if your woman has never made a comment about your penis take it as no comment and dont expect one. just like men like big chest, fat ,women like fat dicks. i'm going on a limb to say majority of women are like this. it's a preference man. you have to give the sex a try or you will regret it. if afterwards your woman starts to make penis size jokes or try to send you any insecure subliminal messges you might have a problem. sounds like you have a good girl, give her a chance she deserves it even if you need to tell her how you feel. dont be afraid to ask her preference. dont get mad if its not what you want to here. GOD BLESS

[CHANDLERS WISH]

just like men like big chest, fat ,women like fat dicks. i'm going on a limb to say majority of women are like this. it's a preference man.

Old saying: - "It's not what you've got it's how you use it", together off course with everything else you are capable of doing, in the manner of pleasing visa versa.


CW

[jazz12]

i use to fill size did'nt matter but after being with my wife an dealing with her crazy comments im kind of filling kind of different. i mean she is not in the mood to me but she wedge a dildo so far and cum so quickly to the point of
she looks at me are you still their. its so embarassing that she doesnt believe how i feel. i wish it did not matter but it does. im a small dude an she treats me like it. she tells me i can not take all that dildo, turn my back and she shoving the toy all the way inside her.