[WildChild]

Sweetdarts suggestion that you take a good look is a good one. You should know your body and how beautiful it is. Try wearing natural fiber undies, avoiding tight clothing that may chafe and prevent healing air flow. The idea that the pernium is irritated or torn is probably right. Let it heal and then start working on stretching and toughening it. Pregnant women have to do this so they won't tear in delivery (and it works, had two naturally w/o tearing) You can do a search on this but basically your use your thumb to apply pressure and to push down on the pernium from the vaginal edge. I'll bet this will avoid future problems.

[logic_XY]

Well, sounds like my vagina has ripped from rough dry sex. I am still waiting on the Dr. appointment. But your theory sounds right.


So, I don't enjoy sex because I expect not to enjoy it? Is there any BODLY explination that exists? Like are some women just not born with G-spots. Because I am sorry but I can't beleive a little faith would turn the feeling I get from sex into something magical. It's just TOO far from it.

[golden_nemesis]

Well, belief, and maybe a little lube should help. ;-)

As far as the "born with no G-spot" theory, many researchers believe that the G-spot is just an extension of the nerve endings of the clitoris. It can be positioned differently in many women, and it may be possible that the nerve base of your clitoris isn't located close to the front wall of your vagina, and is a little deeper, making it harder, perhaps even impossible to reach.

This doesn't mean sex can't be pleasurable. There are tons and TONS of nerve endings around the mouth of your vagina. Adding lubrication should really help you to get pleasurable sensations from intercourse, and if you or your partner stimulates your clitoris at the same time, you may even be able to come during vaginal sex. Honestly, I have yet to come with no manual clitoral stimulation during sex, though even when I don't come, I love the way vaginal intercourse feels.

Just try to love your body as it is, and find what makes it tick. Good luck with the doc, hon!