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  • d4lly
    Member
    • Feb 2009
    • 32

    pain during sex :(

    ok so a bit over a month ago i started having sex with my bf. at first it really hurt when he put it in, but that pain is slowly getting better now. But when we hav sex it still hurts deep inside and it doesnt seem to be going away..im not sure how to explain the feeling but its kinda like an ache deep inside, to me if feels like period pain with some sharp pain. it also makes me feel like peeing really bad :S will this go away the more i have sex?
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Make sure you are getting fully aroused before hand and try some different positions. Have you ever orgasmed one your own or without intercourse?

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    • ginger22
      Member
      • Jun 2009
      • 65

      omg! the same thing happens to me. lol. (well i've never had sex) but when me and my boyfriend mess around I get that same period pain, burning, have to pee feeling you talked about. And I don't have sex. hmm...?

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      • d4lly
        Member
        • Feb 2009
        • 32

        yeah i've tried a few positions but it still hurts but it hurts a lot more when it goes in deeper. i hav also orgasmed by myself and without intercourse and i think im getting fully aroused too coz im pretty wet before he puts it in.

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        • Guest

          were you a virgin when you met your bf? maybe your hymen isn't fully broken.

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          • d4lly
            Member
            • Feb 2009
            • 32

            yeah i was a virgin when i met my bf. but is it usual to have ache-like pain in ur pelvis area? its kinda like period pain.

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            • Chantalemma
              Senior Member
              • Apr 2009
              • 171

              Have you had any problems with your ovaries? Cyst on them at alll... you mgiht want to check that out.....I had the same problem until my cyst broke on my ovary and it hurts like . But it took about 3 weeks and I am back and running.

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              • d4lly
                Member
                • Feb 2009
                • 32

                not that i kno of..but i mite get that checked out. thx

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                • Guest

                  could be that he might be too big and is hitting your cervical wall. try a different position

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                  • kgradesigns
                    Junior Member
                    • Jun 2009
                    • 3

                    I agree with the comment about cysts. I can't do certain positions any longer because I have cysts on both ovaries.

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