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Part of it for us is we use condoms. I'm apparently allergic to every type of birth control known to the world, and my doctors are fairly certain I would die if I tried having a kid, so we'll continue using condoms. He doesn't particularly feel like laying around with a rubber on. On occasion we've collapsed back in bed after he removes it, and cuddled until sleep, but we prefer to not. I can't lay there smelling like sex.
Same for me. Cuddling before is nice. Having a human blanket does get rather hot. Especially when you've just worked up a sweat. My SO also cuddles in his sleep. I have to wake him up if I want out of bed because he tends to cling.Cuddling leads to sex for me...so it really doesn't matter how much we do it as long as I know what the results are...basically don't TEASE ME!!!! LOL Seriously, he holds me no matter what, half the time I'm the one saying "It's HOT" Have you ever just have someone chase you in the bed...he freaking chases me in his sleep! WTF..lol ( I bet if he didn't do it I would complain)Comment
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Oh man, how much easier would life be if my guy and I could just pass out right after without the towel...haha. I don't like laying in bodily fluids either. He always ejaculates in me, but it's always a LOT so we keep a towel by the bed at all times, otherwise one of us has to sleep in it when it's done coming back out of me. Lots of extra effort, I know...but eh.
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LOL - I'm amazed at how graphic we get here without actually being graphic.Oh man, how much easier would life be if my guy and I could just pass out right after without the towel...haha. I don't like laying in bodily fluids either. He always ejaculates in me, but it's always a LOT so we keep a towel by the bed at all times, otherwise one of us has to sleep in it when it's done coming back out of me. Lots of extra effort, I know...but eh.
Yea, the quick cleanup - no matter how quick, is somewhat inconvenient.
Fortunately. for some reason she doesn't leak when she's horizontal...when she gets up, though....
The best is when it's her time of the month, and we time it so we both go at the same time. Then she can lay right down with me and we fall right asleep. Heaven.
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