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  • travnik1988
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 6

    Originally posted by stressed
    "The girth is not good"? How many relationships has he had? She must have either had many XL sizes or has just watched too much porn (I think the second is more possible). Women don't care about size when it comes to sex, it's not what makes you good or bad at it. If she does care then it's only a mental issue and not a physical one. Vaginas change shape based on the penis inserted, so if she hasn't been having sex with XL men up until recently then she will enjoy it. You have nothing to worry about and I want to congratulate you for caring enough for your girlfriend to post in a, typically, women's board about it. If she's not happy then it's her loss.
    She is not virgin. She slept with two guys before, so she had experience. Probably she comparing my penis with penises porno actors. This is totally stupid. Everyone knows that porn actors penises are rare. Obviously she wants something that will be very difficult to get.

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      She's superficial.

      Therefore, probably materialistic as well.

      "Buyer beware" comes to mind.
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • stressed
        Veteran Member
        • Jun 2009
        • 1914

        Oh my, I just hope she treats you well during the rest of the time and doesn't compare other aspects of you to other superficial ones. Yep, it's 100% stupid to compare to porno actors. I just hope she'll get over it, although there's a very good possibility that she will once she realizes that sex is good even with a non-porno actor. If she continues with her comments then just ignore them because if you start thinking about them seriously then it will get to you, and that wouldn't be fair towards you.

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        • stressed
          Veteran Member
          • Jun 2009
          • 1914

          And to add something, I've also had 2 relationships before my current one, both ex'es had a larger penis than current boyfriend but this means absolutely nothing. It doesn't affect the relationship or the sex, it's purely about what you do.

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            If she'e feeling that girth is a problem she needs to strengthen her pc muscles. A kegel master will do the job, she'll feel more.

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            • nightqueen
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2009
              • 139

              Your girlfriend actually told you that the "girth is not good." That's really mean.

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              • Star425
                Junior Member
                • Sep 2009
                • 1

                Your size is fine, maybe she had previous guys thats hugh, but for most ladies that's more then enough.

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