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  • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 227

    Without adequate information about your technique I will assume your not getting your partner aroused before you penetrate her.

    The biggest problem with sex is that the man is just too eager to enter their partner.

    It takes a women a relatively long time before she is ready to accept a penis.

    That's why foreplay is paramount to achieving orgasm.

    The reason guys don't do enough foreplay I think is that they fundamentally care more about their own sexual needs and very little really about there partners needs.

    This fundamental problem will always be an issues whilst men just don't care or are just too lazy to get their partners sufficiently aroused before they enter them.

    If you enter your partner without her being naturally wet your asking for problems; no your begging on your hands and knees for problems.

    If your not getting her wet then you have to find out why.

    Its your poor technique that is the problem I would say without having enough information.

    Still maybe I'm wrong.

    If your truly interested in your partners needs then spend exponentially more time on foreplay.

    NO wet no enter.

    The bare minimum for sex is just for a women to be wet.

    Orgasm requires hours of effective foreplay which very few men I'm sure are prepared to do or are sensitive enough to be able to perform on their partners.

    Sex has now become just commerce to be exploited for money.

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