[LanaBear]

Nope - wouldn't smoke. Makes me sick to my stomach, but he wouldn't ask, lol, he hates smoking more than me.

[GlitterAndStuds]

No smoke for me, quit years ago, can't tollerate it in an enclosed space.

Ugh. That's one thing I hated even when I WAS smoking. Over the winter my last roommate would smoke in the car but keep the windows up so it wouldn't get cold, it felt like death in there. That's actually what I think about whenever I think I might sneak a cigarette and it turns me off to it. I actually have a hard time remembering how I ever smoked indoors.

[ThexMrs]

I actually have a friend who is turned on by my smoking. (Yes, I smoke) He thinks that there is just something incredibly sexy about it. I actually find certain guys who smoke attractive but it's not a "turn on" nor is it a "turn off" for me personally.

If my S.O. wanted me to smoke I would even if I wasn't a smoker. I don't think it's really a big deal. And I agree with what Steph said. There are way more worse things that he could ask for. Things that I WOULD NOT do.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

As a smoker I'd say no, cause you'd have to smoke a lot of cigarettes to get that room smokey and the amount of sex I would want, well I'd be smoking more than I am now that's for sure and the goal is to quit, so NUP....

[danceintx]

Lol, I have heard of this fetish, and I am a smoker. I could only imagine how annoying it would be, considering I smoke a pack a day, which is 20 cigarettes, that every time I smoked one he was in the mood. No, I would not want to be with a guy with a smoking fetish even though I do smoke.

[Greenline]

Interesting how many of the "no" responses thus far show a complete aversion to the smoking itself. I wonder how willing to fulfill any fetish these people would be. What if it were something else unique (something other than your "vanilla" & common BDSM fetish)? Would you consider your partner's wishes and kinks? Certainly you probably have some type of fetish of your own. In my opinion, it seems that most of the "yes" people are handling this question/situation well. They aren't really thinking about the smoking part of it as much as the fact that their partner has something they wish/like and they would like to please them (because they are their partner). The thing just happens to be smoking. Granted, I can understand if someone wouldn't want to actually smoke (especially if they don't already), but that's why the option was also in there to pretend to smoke with unlit cigarettes and/or props/toys. Still interesting how some people wouldn't even be willing to do that, to simply play the game for their partner, and would even be willing to break it off with him because they aren't open to his sexuality interests. Very interesting I think.

[Little]

Could be because many people won't even date someone who smokes casually. It's certainly on my list, and I know lots of other people (male and female) whose "list" it is also on. So putting it in the bedroom would be prickly.
With every fetish, it's going to depend heavily on the partner's discretion. I'd say no to attaching a dildo to my teddy bear too ... but there are plenty of people who'd raise their hand and say "YES YES YES!"

[WildChild]

With every fetish, it's going to depend heavily on the partner's discretion. I'd say no to attaching a dildo to my teddy bear too ... but there are plenty of people who'd raise their hand and say "YES YES YES!"

ROTHFLOMAF
That's a good one!
True, I wouldn't date a smoker. I have some freinds who do and they only do so outside. I don't permit it in or near my home or vehicle. While my sensitivity levels vary with exposure it just isn't worth my health and comfort.

Me thinks it likely the OP has a fetish that not many he's met are willing to consider.

If it was a matter of the illusion of a smoke filled room, a Hallows Eve mist machine would provide that. They are readily availible right now.

[sharonparsons]

I agree about there probably being 500 things worse than a smoking fetish. I'm not 100% certain that my husband has a smoking fetish, because I've never asked him point blank, but I am pretty sure he does. First of all, I think "fetish" is a harsh word. It makes me uncomfortable. I prefer something like "turn-on". I smoke and I'm older than my husband. I'm 63 and he's 42. I know that he has a life long "turn-on" for older women because he has admitted this to me. In fact, I don't think I would have married him if he didn't feel that way. As far as my smoking is concerned- he's very affectionate when I smoke. The alternative would be him nagging me about my smoking. I know what I'm talking about because I was once married to a man who constantly nagged me about my smoking. Its much nicer being married to a man who lights my cigarettes for me and then cuddles up with me on the couch while I smoke. So if he has a smoking fetish, then I'm all for it.

[kira]

eww smoking is horrible. I would never be with someone who wants to smoke and I'd never allow smoke in my house. Plus we both have asthma reactions to cigarette/cigar smoke (not fire smoke or exhaust). We were thrilled when the whole state banned smoking outside your own home or car. My husband spent some time in japan and almost ended up in the hospital because of lung problems since everyone smokes and if you go to the doctor complaining of any breathing problems, sore throat, etc... they tell you that you have a cold and send you away. It took months for him to recover when he returned.

I believe they quit making candy cigarettes because it wasn't PC and supposedly encouraged kids to smoke. I just thought they tasted good. We bought them all the time and I've never tried a real cigarette.