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This is women's most favoured fantasy. -
actually as disturbing as this may sound,Nancy Friday who has written several books on female sexual fantasy says that rape is at the top of the list..be she cautions that it is a fantasy and not a reality that women think thisa smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..Comment
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The rape fantasy is one of women's favourite fantasies. It is rape without harm. Most of the women who have this fantasy, have their partners or someone they know well who rapes them. When a husband or a boyfriend is raping them, they have the assurance that they will not be harmed. Also in fantasy, women may think of strangers raping them, or gang-raped. These are fantasies, and as remarked by Nancy Friday, these fantasies are not normally meant to be realised.Comment
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A fantasy involving the desire to be raped is an oxymoron. Rape by definition is sex against a persons will... so if a person is fantasizing about WANTING it to happen... it nullifies it being 'rape' in the first place... so it doesn't make much sense.
It would make more sense to call it a rough sex fantasy, or sex with a stranger/s.... but WANTING it to happen , in my opinion removes the rape aspect of the fantasy :S
Calling it womens FAVORITE fantasy, Antonia.... is a slap in the face of any woman that has ever been trully raped. We are all individuals , sweeping generalizations like that should be carefully layed as to not offend. If you were to say "Some women's favorite, My personal favorite, Studies have shown it to be a popular fantasy" etc.... it would be much easier to swallow than "WOMAN's favorite". Get what I mean?Last edited by Hopeless Dork; 11-03-2009, 09:28 AM.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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