[Guest]

A couple of nights ago I was in bed with this guy. We were fooling around and he said he wanted to have sex. We tried, but I was too tense, his penis was about an inch in me when it started to hurt so I told him to stop.
My question is: His penis didn't fully enter me, but the tip did. Did I lose my virginity?

[AFemaleProdigy]

Did you have any bleeding at all after? If not, then you are probably still a virgin.

You are still considered a virgin until your hymen is broken or if you have had the penis fully inserted. The penis would usually need to go in farther to break the hymen which causes bleeding in most women.

It's going to be rough getting through your first time. You have to just make sure you are real relaxed, well lubricated, and work through the pain. The pain will only go away after you have gone all the way at least once... maybe two or three times. It gets much better after that though.

[Guest]

Wow, I was so confused.
Thank you so much, you reply really cleared things up!

[AFemaleProdigy]

No problem! You are most welcome!

[littlejammer]

i have sex 2 times and he was big and he also went alll the way in. it didnt hurt and i didnt bleed. is that normal?

[Smiles302]

My first time didn't hurt either, and I didn't bleed, so I hope that's normal lol

[littlejammer]

will i ever bleed?

[Smiles302]

I never did during or right after sex... ever

[littlejammer]

well imma take it as a good thing that i didnt bleed l0l, i think that would be kinda embarrassing when the guy sees your blood on his . haha.

[Me247]

The bleeding usually occurs after the sex, so the the blood woulnt get on his penis :P