[Guest]

anyone know any good anal lube, whenver i use it i always end up farting it all out liek an hour later its gross. anyone know anything that willhelp prevent this?

[Hopeless Dork]

Farting after anal sex is par for the course... no matter which lube you use, as its more to do with the fact your rear end is dialated after.

No matter which lube you use, whatever isn't absorbed will expell. Not sure how much your using or how deep its going... I had the sound effect problem after anal but not the leaking of lube issue... granted we didn't use a whole lot of it.

Your safety and comfort are more important than the after clean up so be sure to use as much lube as you need, as to not tear anything.

I've read to avoid those numbing lubes for anal, because you NEED to be able to feel sensation there so that you can tell if something is wrong, if numb you might not know if something is injured.

Can I ask what you are currently using? Any waterbased lube should be fine and safe to use with your condom (condoms are a must for anal even committed relationships because of infections that can go into the males urethra. No matter how clean your rear is, trace bacteria can work their way up the mans tube and give infections).

[Guest]

its a water based lube i dont know what its called, but my boyfriend likes using alot of he gets mad at me. and when we use alot and i fart it out and it leeks through my pants onto the couch he gets mad and yells at me cuz its my fault. i dont know waht to do. i cant just stop letting him put it in my butt cuz then he will be really angry and leave me.

[Hopeless Dork]

Well he can't have it both ways... he sounds like a complete jerk to be honest. I mean if he is using excessive lube... then seeing what happens when he does this (the leaking) and becoming upset.... YET STILL wants to use excessive lube -- STILL wants to get mad at it leaking..

Uh he either lacks some serious reasoning skills or is... just a jerk. If he wants to be lubed to his ears when he penetrates you anally, there will be those obvious concequences.

Seriously, do not take his threats to leave you over refusing anal (or at least refusing until he learns to accept the consequences of doing it that way) seriously.... he isn't going anywhere. It's not going to be easy for him to find another girl that will put up with his demands and then irrational expectations.

The fact you even let him explore you that way, the fact you tolerate his selfish reactions to what happens when you do it... do not let him bully you into thinking he can find a replacement for you , he can't.

But that is neither here nor there. While there is no doubt in my mind he would not be able to find someone as accomodating as you are to him -- I see no reason that you can't find someone more respectful than he. I bet you can. I bet you'd be happier. You came in here looking for a lube solution...

but it sounds like lube is the least of your problems with this guy....

[Guest]

Well he can't have it both ways... he sounds like a complete jerk to be honest. I mean if he is using excessive lube... then seeing what happens when he does this (the leaking) and becoming upset.... YET STILL wants to use excessive lube -- STILL wants to get mad at it leaking..

Uh he either lacks some serious reasoning skills or is... just a jerk. If he wants to be lubed to his ears when he penetrates you anally, there will be those obvious concequences.

Seriously, do not take his threats to leave you over refusing anal (or at least refusing until he learns to accept the consequences of doing it that way) seriously.... he isn't going anywhere. It's not going to be easy for him to find another girl that will put up with his demands and then irrational expectations.

The fact you even let him explore you that way, the fact you tolerate his selfish reactions to what happens when you do it... do not let him bully you into thinking he can find a replacement for you , he can't.

But that is neither here nor there. While there is no doubt in my mind he would not be able to find someone as accomodating as you are to him -- I see no reason that you can't find someone more respectful than he. I bet you can. I bet you'd be happier. You came in here looking for a lube solution...

but it sounds like lube is the least of your problems with this guy....

maybe ur boyfriend is just too nice, i kind of think its the womens place to make her man happy, so if hes happy and im a little discontent thats okay with me.

[Guest]

what kind was it, that sounds alot like my boyfriend and i wouldnt want that hpapening to me

[Texinator]

i kind of think its the womens place to make her man happy

What? You oughta be making each other happy!

[Guest]

yah he makes me happy after hes happy

[Steph33]

its a water based lube i dont know what its called, but my boyfriend likes using alot of he gets mad at me. and when we use alot and i fart it out and it leeks through my pants onto the couch he gets mad and yells at me cuz its my fault. i dont know waht to do. i cant just stop letting him put it in my butt cuz then he will be really angry and leave me.

I'll keep this short. He's a moron, obviously.

[WildChild]

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