[rcoreyus]

I'll get flak for this, but you might watch some porn flicks for ideas. Not the usually pro hardcore stuff - most of that is done for show not fun, but homemade movies made by couples who just like to show off. This sort of thing is available free on the internet.

BTW - I don't know how old you are. If you are under 18, I didn't just post that.

[SFDad]

Please don't worry about doing 'something stupid'. He will like almost anything you do, almost anyway you touch his penis. Really hard to do anything wrong as long as you don't let fingernails or teeth get into the action.

He will be most turned on by your enthusiasm- just ask him to moan whenever you are doing something he particularly likes.

[Cloudnine]

I seriously dont know what was going on in my head the first time i went down.. haha its actually quite funny when i look back on it. Because when i stuck my hand down his pants i was so confident, then i touched it and it totally brought me back to reality. like i had no clue what i was doing... so i was just like playing around with it for a bit. but i'd say don't use your teeth and play around with your tongue.. if your mouth starts getting tired try some licks and hand jobs, as for finishing swallowing is just easier, but if you don't want to discuss other options, him finishing on you or you finishing him off with your hand could work also.

[rayray0077]

"Pleasing boyfriend"-don't worry. First just put your head on his shoulder and play with his penis. Mainly, hold the shaft with a medium grip, not hard, but not too soft. Slide your hand from the head down to the base, slowly, with a firmer grip going down. You can use a few light quick strokes just under the head, then slow long ones. You should notice his shaft getting very rigid. You can just slide your mouth over the head, no teeth, just lips and tongue, moving slowly up and down as you like, then lick around the head and around the shaft. If you touch the balls, just do it lightly to see how they feel, most guys don't want much going on there. It is your choice to have him cum in your mouth. DON'T do that if you don't want to. (Really, that can be later.) You can just put your head back on his shoulder and stroke his shaft like I said before. That slow action, letting his shaft slide thru your hand on the downstroke will drive him crazy, then a few fast strokes. (edit). Just be prepared for anything there. Keep stroking as he cums, until after no more cum is oozing at all. The orgasm will last longer than you think.

[ninja.assassin]

My boy doesn't like his skin pulled back too far from the head. It hurts him so try and avoid that. Also my tip for swallowing is to swallow it as it comes. Don't let it build up in your mouth because (especially if he drinks alcohol and eats some foods) it can taste nasty if you try and swallow it all at once. So go little by little as it comes into your mouth. Don't swallow until you're very very sure you're ready. It took me about a year and a half to be ready. I told my boy I was going to swallow but had to spit because I wasn't ready and it hurt his feelings :-( oops. And always be ok to talk to him about it, especially if he asks you what you like too ;-).

[ninja.assassin]

sorry stupid interwebs >_<.

[rach]

thank you both of you...i have only licked slowly that its i havent gotten the nerve to give him the whole thing mainly because i just dont want to do anything wrong

[Goodgirl93]

You can't really do anything wrong.Unless you use your teeth,or your fingernails are untrimmed and sharp.You can start off licking and kissing his shaft and around the head.That will get him nice and turned on.When you take him into your mouth,take in only as much as you can handle.It depends on your gag reflexes.use your lips and cover your teeth.It wouldn't feel very good if all he felt were teeth scraping againt his penis.Yes,you do move your head up and down,but if you really want to make him cum,use your toungue and flick underneath the head.I did this for my ex,and it drove him wild.Also I used to 'swirl' my toungue around his shaft.He really like that. Obviously,you won't be able to take all of him in the first time,so gently stroke the part of that shaft that is not in your mouth.

No you do not have to keep your mouth around his penis when he cums.If you want to know what its like,you can let him cum in your mouth,and if you can't swallow it,then simply have a paper towel handy to spit it out.But if you don't feel compfortable with letting him cum in your mouth,just finish him off with a hand job.Either way,I'm sure he will be glad that you went down on him.

Good luck! (And don't expect to be a pro at it your first time,with some practice,you'll know exactly what gets him off.)

[tjla]

seriously watch some porno it actually might help you...for some pointers...im not trying to be gross it will really help you, i had the same problem i was so worried bout makin a fool of mysef or like hurting him, after watching a couple of scenes from xxx it helped me.

[rach]

yeah we talked about it last night. i told him its not the blowjob its self that bothers me its that i dont know what i'm doing and i dont want to make a fool of myself. he said that i dont expect you to be an expert i will teach you if you want. its that a bad thing or what becasue i just hate not knowing what i'm doing and i feel stupid :/