[Tzoto]

Is there any way to tell if a woman has had sex the night before? Like are there any signs, or any actual physical ways to tell?

[p3375]

Definately!! Look for the gleam in her eyes and that secretive smile on her lips!

Ok I'm being a smartaleck. What do you want to do, spread her open and conduct a 'csi' type exam? Why don't you just ask!?!
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[Tzoto]

Um...the problem is, is that she is know for being a pathological liar...So I was wondering if there was maybe something to spot, like maybe a specific change in her attitude, or if her "Color" would change, et cetera.

[Futureboy]

Cheating is not the issue being a pathalogical liar is. Get rid asap.

Fb

[p3375]

Ok, ok... don't look for physical changes. Look for changes in her heart. In my not so glorious past, I cheated on my husband. I regret the dishonesty, wish I'd just told him the truth from the start... anyway:

When I started having an affair I began growing less and less interested in being w/ hubby. In a short time, I didn't want him to touch me at all and the thought of sex w/ him became repugnant. What changed? Nothing physical really, just my heart.

Does she look into your eyes w/ love and affection? Does she reach out to touch you for no reason other than to feel your presence? Does she tell you about her day and what she's thinking?? If no, you at least have some work to do on your relationship. The thing w/ cheating isn't not about a penis entering a vagina, it's about the relationship between 2 people.

I expect this will be no help to you at all, but it's the best I can do
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[Tzoto]

Actually that was very helpful. But I thought that with women that having sex was about her trusting enough in the other person (Like a relationship). And i might be able to reply later on today about the Heart and touch things, thanks.

[danceintx]

There is no real way to tell physically that can't be explained away in other ways as well. If you don't have trust then exactly what is the relationship based on? You can't go around wondering and trying to find out the truth forever, it will drive you crazy.

[sourpuss]

The bigger issue is the pathological liar thing. There's no amount of catching a person like that in lie, they will not change.

Run for the hills.

[Tzoto]

The only problem with that is that I am still in Love with her. And about the lying, I can usually tell, but sometimes with the big ones I cannot tell either way. I try to go with gut feeling, and that comes out to more than 90% correct all of the time, but with bigger issues the ego gets in the way...

[sourpuss]

Catching her in a lie isn't going to make her stop if she truly is pathological about it. The only thing you can control is whether or not you can be ok with not trusting her.