[stiggybird]

it hurts first time, dont worry there is nothing wrong at all, my first time i made sure i had a drink lol so it didnt hurt, but the second time it did, and the third.
its natural to be tight, just make sure your wet enough, use a lube if you think its that bad, first time sex is rubbish anyway hardly anyone cums.
do it regular.

[LILDsweetie]

dont worry i have the same problem alough im only 15 it still worrys me i am ready but it just wont go in i have tried everything but it just doesnt work my friends keep telling me to get lube or something like that and to just relax because the muscles in your vagina arent letting him in i no its not advice but i didnt want u to feel like you are the onli 1 with the problem if i do get any advice i will tell you

[talk time]

It is not unusual for the first few times to hurt. My first time, which was many many moons ago, We couldn't get it in. It took quite a few attempts. I believe this is normal.

Be patient, relax, make sure he is the right one for you, use lots of foreplay and lubricant.

It sounds like he is sensative enough not to want to 'tear' straight into you. That is a good thing.

Sex takes a while to master and start to enjoy.

Good Luck.

tt

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Thanks LILDsweetie, I feel that this thread had got a little bit stale, what with nobody posting in it for... a year.

Good thing you brought it back to everyone's attention though!

(If you can read through the sarcasm that says: make a new thread)

[talk time]

Darn, Didn't realise it was an old post. I hate that.

[shweedart]

you use tampons ? and still virgin?
my advice to you , wait till you get married. it is worth it. Trust me.

I'm sorry but thats not what she asked you



hmm, my advice to you would be alot of fingering from your boyfriend, starting with one finger then 2 then 3 if he can, without forcing or hurting you! It'll get your vagina used to stretching and stuff



It hurt alot when I lost my virginity but it did take time to get round to it! Just take it slow and good luck


shweedart x

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Ok............ Housewife hasn't posted for months and months, and the post you are responding to is a year old....


And that is why necroposting is lame.

And keeping necroposted threads alive is also lame.

[LisaW1991]

my advice to you , wait till you get married. it is worth it. Trust me.

This can be very good advice, or it can be very bad advice.

Yes, wait if you don't feel you're ready and\or feel its right for you to get married.

It can extremely bad advice for someone who is ready to have sex, had found the right person to have sex with, but then feels outside pressure to wait until marriage.

I beleive its best to have sex before marriage if the couple feels ready for sex simply because if the reason to get married is "So we can have sex" then that is a very bad reason to get married and a high risk of divorce. Plus, it's really is a good idea to find out if you're sexually compatible before getting married.

[Little]

This thread is from 2007, closing.