[heryseshta]

Lol If you both feel that there is more than just the sex I don't see the problem with that! I'm younger but my story is pretty close to yours. I met someone online, but I was stupid. After talking online for 5 hours we met the next day. I went to my mom's for 2 days and we talked on the phone a bit, then went over to watch a movie and have pizza that evening. About 3 days after we had met and we had a night of amazing sex. We have now been dating for almost 6 months and don't picture it ending anytime soon. It's not just the sex either since he is in the navy and for 3 months he is gone and there is no chance of sex. Sometimes you just hit it off. Just enjoy it! Just because it was fast doesn't mean she is a any more than it means that you are a player.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Jack, we don't Judge on this Forum, hense the removal of the post you replied to, nor do we attack a person's character after all, we do not know them..

I've been thinking a little more on this:-

I truly think communiciation as we drum into people here, is "the key"..

I remember, vividly, stating on my first date with my now boyfriend, a few things pertaining to sex, to first time sex verses intimacy, chemistry verses attachment etc and to my belief of I intend to be me 100% me sexually, no point being anyone else ( I was with my ex, and it nearly killed me).. I went out on 3 dates with my boyfriend and the third, onwards we were intimate. I'm guessing he likes my "intimacy", but bottom line is, from communication, he knew my past, and that was very sparce over 3 years and no one night stands and lots of celebacy.

I think that's your problem, it's not the instant wanting to be touched, and 7hr sex, it's the "is it because of the way she feels about me that she is "reacting" this way?

Communicate, not by asking her straight up, that's tricky, rather as my boyfriend said, "it just felt right".. there was laughter, conversation, easiness, holding and a couple of stolen kisses and the third date, it just felt right.....

So, start with something like that, " it just felt right, 4hrs communicating, we have so much in common, how did you feel that first night?"...

CW

[kygirl]

Chemistry - Instant chemistry..........



And, that's your answer.................it does, can happen, just like that..............

CW

Totally agree with CW...sometimes things just move smoothly and well and it just happens. I understand wondering if things are going too fast (heck, I do it all the time lol) but I'll tell you what I've been told....

Enjoy it! Just see what happens and try not to analyze it to death. Hope it continues to go really really well!!