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  • smileygem05
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    • Mar 2010
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    By the way, I have known him for 6 years. I didn't marry him because he was good looking, without knowing him...

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    • Maximus
      - WINNER OF THE BEST THREAD April 2011
      • Dec 2009
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      Originally posted by smileygem05
      By the way, I have known him for 6 years. I didn't marry him because he was good looking, without knowing him...
      Smiley...the question of the motives for the marriage were not a challenge on your views but more a request for clarification.
      I do have a very close friend, a guy, who had made clear to his wife, that sex was not at all important for him.
      And I happen to know many people who made this choice.
      AFAIK they all live in harmony with it, although I can imagine that there might be some tension with the partner who did not make the same choice.


      To make a long story short, having a low libido is not necessarily something that needs to be "fixed". Sometimes it's combined with other life choices that make the sex a little incompatible...to some degree.
      Behold the presence of the Father in all beings...

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