[Hopeless Dork]

There is just so much wrong with that picture. One, he abandons you with leaving you to tend to the guests... that right there alone would be annoying 2... he goes off masturbating to porn while you are tending to the guests? Thats outragously rude, especially with him knowing you want what he's got. Now if he would have snuck off with you for a quickie while the guests kept themselves company... that would have been awesome... what he did instead was selfish, inconsiderate and just plain wierd. I'm sorry for how that must have hurt your feelings.

[newmommy532011]

I was the same way at first. I felt like I was doing something wrong. Like I wasn't good enough for him and I wasn't satisfying him. But he said, It wasn't me and that I was doing great (The reason why I am still the one he makes love to at night lol) he said he thinks the way woman moan is what turns him on...He says the way I moan makes him more turned on and that's why he last so long. lol so now we watch it together and explore different things. Maybe ask him what he liked about porn and why he watches it...maybe you can learn something new. Or maybe he has a problem. My friends husband has the same problem with porn. Talk about it. Verbal comunication is the key to a healthy marriage.

Me and my husband have been together for 10 years and we still tend to find something new about each other. Hope this helped. Good luck hun!

[Elanor-Jane]

I just wanted to hop on and thank everybody for the advice. There was some great points. I ended up kicking everybody out for the day and we had a long talk and have figured out a plan. We moved bedrooms around. We gave up the big room to move to the only bedroom downstairs. That way everybody else is upstairs so we can be more alone. I really did appreciate the posts though because once I read them I looked at the situation different and was able to work up a plan.

that was a really awesome idea. family is complicated and i think its really great that u have your mum with you guys even if it makes things a little more crazy! family is so important! if it make u feel any better she is aware that you guys do have sex (maybe u wont feel better lol) and she herself most probably had some sort of regular sex life so unless he's swearing black and blue she probably cant hear anything, and if she does im sure she knows its normal and will get on with her life just fine.

[nattynoona]

I wish my boyf masturbated more!! His sex drive isn't as high as mine, and I heard somewhere that masturbation INCREASES sex drive.

[stressed]

I wish my boyf masturbated more!! His sex drive isn't as high as mine, and I heard somewhere that masturbation INCREASES sex drive.

It does not. If anything, it decreases it.

[LanaBear]

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