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1) I like men that work out, but I don't like it when they are super thin or have no fat and just muscle. as I usually say " I need a men that doesn't make me look fat"
2) Chest hair - Yay. But not to a point where it looks like fur!
3) Its hard to say. I don't think I was ever able to answer that question. Just somethingComment
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1- confidence for sure is 10 time more attractive than whatever is under the shirt: it's how a man carries himself that does it for me.
muscular: nah! don't make me feel that I should go hit the gym too! You can stay fit without and there are lots of ways to do so... hence having the right girlfriend
2- hair: if you have them, keep them!... personally, I even like them.
3- toys: yes but in moderation and porno: yes... and no real need for moderation there
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I think if I had to say my "type" - it's a "bear" - which I know is totally unappealing to most people....
Honestly, I think that I go for the personality and brain and someone who has the guns to stick to their opinion.... someone who gets my obscure sense of humor and can match my astonishingly quick wit... hee hee...
Brains, wit and a backboner... although I haven't caught the latter! (I am now weaving my basket for HE-double hockey sticks for that comment!!!)Comment
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I love muscular men.-First off I get this feeling from some of my female friends that they are turned off by muscular men. Is that true? I like to work out, and I do strive to take care of myself. I'm not looking to be a Mens Health cover model, but I do want to feel confident about taking my shirt off at the lake. Whats a good general feeling on this by women?
-Chest hair. Yay or Nay?
-What do you find attractive in a male?
-Whats your take on sex toys and porn?
I would love to see your responses.
NO chest hair!
Attractive? Honesty, faithfulness, affectionate, confident, has his life together, loves me
Sex toys - sure
Porn - not really a fan. I feel like I should supply all he needs. We've even taped stuff and taken pics. Why does he need to look at other women?? Drives me NUTS!Comment
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Well, my fiance has chest hair and it doesn't bother me really at all. It seems more manly to me when guys do have it. haha
Confidence, determination, loves me for me, takes care of me, honesty, stays faithful, etc.
I find sex toys and porn to be gross gross gross. I don't really see the point or use.Comment
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Muscular men - my impression of men with exaggerated physiques is that they seem to be more interested in the way their body looks than the average man. I see men in the gym who are very muscular and they look at themselves in the mirror allot.
Chest hair yes a moderate amount
Sex toys yes, yes
Porn no noComment
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it depends how muscular you are, i mean if yoy look like arnald swuartzzneger a.k.a terminater (lol,cant spell) then yeah thats kinda gross to most girls,but it also depends on the individual.
2. chest hair? what are we talking here, gorilla ?? or cave man?? gorilla not so nice and cave man a.k.a.(normal bushy amount) most friends i know LOVE A MAN WITH CHEST HAIR!!! i know i do and thats because a man in my eyes is meant
to be all hairy and strong looking,its what makes them men i say.
3.whats attractive in a male is that he is confident and sure of himself, physicalley a guy who has nice broad shoulders (mmmmmm) is a good asset but i would trade that physical traight for a caring,confident,loving man anyday lol lol
4.umm ex toys...... depends on the women i guess, vibes,beads, ok now porn....... its a fine line that 1,it depends if my guys watching it with me and hes secrectly comparing and lusting them more, then he is a , but if we watching together and its just a enhancement to 'challenge' us to do better than i dont mind it lol all depends on that question,
hope i was semi helpfulComment
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