[Guest]

Hi
I've only just joined and repsonded to a thread in 2008, but it seems to be a topic that might be of interest now. A lady said that she loved playing with her man's balls but he didn't like it (poor fellow!) Do other ladies enjoy this?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

True to your word

I think that it's an equal street...

Partners should know what each other likes and be open to it...

So, I have no problem with it, it's sexy... But, I have to say, again it's a two way street, you guys have to also come to the party with what we like.

CW

[Guest]

Very much agree. Trouble is, a lot of women are reluctant to tell you exactly what they like. Perhaps a few men as well. I think the best time to tell a man what you like him doing to you is not always actually at the time that you are having sex. It sometimes is nicer to whisper in his ear, or send him a text. Don't be afraid to be explicit if you trust him (i.e if he's a stable partner) It's a big turn on for a man. If you like him to be naked at home because you like his body, then ask him to strip off for you. Say what you want and maybe you'll get it !

[x.st.angel.x]

Also i think it comes down to personality as well... some people might be more open with sharing what they like/want compared to others. I think maybe a little encouragement to talk or hint about what one likes doesnt hurt.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Can't disagree with that.

I told my "now boyfriend" that I am beyond hiding, I am me, that's it, all there is too it and in my next relationship I will be me...

In that though I made him wait a bit, explaining that sex is sex and I am after more than that...

[Guest]

I think you'll find that most mature men prefer a partner that is just more than sex. It's so much better when there is trust and respect between the two of you. Some people do find it hard to open up, but I think you have to try otherwise you'll never get to that other level.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Don't know how old you are, but age definately has a lot to play in it.. Definately.

Some dates though Thomas, they were, well full of what they could do sexually as if, that mean't something to us um, older women? WT?

Your right, it's not about sex... It's about respect, knowledge, trust and being able to let go of your inhibitions through that, finally.

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

PS Thomas I know we've gone "off" topic but it helps I think in getting people to answer your question as they see someone whom actually cares about both parties, not selfishly, wants something done...

CW

[Guest]

Yes. I love my balls being played with by my partner. If any of the ladies want tips on what to do then don't be afraid to ask. I think surrendering your intimate areas to a caring partner of the opposite sex is such a fantastic feeling. Somebody on the previous blog said their partner didn't like it because it reduced his masculinity?? I think it does the opposite. Having the most fertile and masculine areas caressed by a woman accentuates masculinity not reduces it. Trusting her not to damage your precious area is so initmate and enjoyable.

[lucybelle]

Please explain Thomas!!! I've always been too nervous to even touch any guys balls. I don't know what to do with them... can you play with them any time or only during oral? Man I have no idea what to do with those things! hehe=)